Im 14 want to learn to fight because theres a bully at my school..?

Question

i want to beat the living sickness out of him his about 3 inches taller any tips?? how can i become stronger??

Answer 1

Kick him in the balls,

no need to learn how to fight.

Answer 2

shank him.... trust me ... this helps

Answer 3

Go home punk and do some chores !  You ain't all that !

Answer 4

Learning or asking for advice on how to fight on the internet is pretty much like trying to do circumcision on yourself by asking direction and advice from this forum. Either way you're gonna end getting seriously hurt and maybe even worst , killed !

My response to your primary question will regarded unpopular by many. But lets get to the bottom of the barell that contained the concoction of harsh reality and ugly truth.  

It appears to be a trend in the teens nowdays to "Get Tough !" or "Be Tough !"  on everything. We hear more rhetoric about "getting tough" on things in order to avoid being bullied or mistaken for a wuss.  I am apalled that in every internet media,  such youtube and other free movie upload websites glorifies teen violence in schools in their sites.  

Quite frankly, I am not impress.  I also find it more disturbing that many other posters will actually chimed and give their "opinion" of how to fight back. Questions such this does not belong in the martial arts.  Bullying and school fighting hardly constitute an action that of a martial artist.  Its a action stemming from a  person who cries for attention and the need for false sense of bravado.    

So some kid insulted you or treated you disprespectfully,  somebody accidentally bumped or shoved you, somebody is trying to bait you into fighting him or her and you don't want to look like a loser because people are watching or the girl you been dreaming about in your math class is watching you.  So what !  Do you believed that the proper response to these petty little stupid things by using violence will justify your action and fix everything ?  So big stinking deal !   You are no better than the idiot that started the fight !

People who acts or pretend to be tough typically suffer from lack of social skills .  They misinterpret social situations and often respond with aggressive persona.    

Do you want to know my difinition of what a "tough" person is all about  ?   Take a closer look at the Firefighters, Police Officers, The Men and Women of the armed forces and many others who risked their lives on the daily basis to save others.  That's a tough group of people !

You want to proved your fighting prowess or have the need to expend your hyper energy by fighting  ?  Why not join a martial arts school or MMA clubs.  Get involved in Full contact tournaments and or become a profesional MMA fighter.   This is a more respectable venue.

Don't get me wrong, unless you are positively sure that your life is in grave danger, Fighting back  to "defend"  yourself  is within your legal means and rights.  Then again, I am not a lawyer, perhaps your should consult with one.  

Rest assured that  if you chose to fight back because your "ego" or "rep" is being tarnished , you can be in a world of trouble with the school as well as the law.  Your future does rely on your ability to make a right decision today !      

Remember Sun Tzu once said "To fight and conquer in all our battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting".

If you don't like my answer, go ahead fight with all your heart's contenment and let us know what its like to be in jail once you get out.

Answer 5

Hey bud violence isn't always the answer.  Use your brain avoid the fight.  If hes pushing you too far then put matters in your own hands.  But definatley don't fight if you dont know how too.

Answer 6

Just start lifting weights and try not to look for a fight.

If you have no patience for either of them then I have nothing to say (I can't help you).

Answer 7

I agree %100 with Prince.   I think you should read what he has to say.

Answer 8

Hey mate, I understand how you feel but if you're asking how to beat the sickness out of him then chances are you probably don't know how to defend yourself.  

Why do people pick on others?  I'm no psychologist but I'd wager they choose a target they think they can beat.  Be a bit stupid if he's looking for an ego boost and chose a person to pick on who could wipe the floor with him.  Bullies are generally like hyenas. They won't confront something stronger if they can avoid it, will pick out the weak members and hunt in packs.  But, nevertheless, the b******s are still dangerous.  

My advice, try and avoid the tool for now and take up a self defense style.  Boxing is a good place to start to get a grounding in basic strikes and from there sample other styles until you find one which suits your needs.  You'll find as you get better at the style, you'll come across more confident and the end result (in a perfect world) is you will never have to apply it.  

If all else fails and this bloke does attack you, then give it your best shot.  It's better to go down fighting than to stand there and cop a hiding.  He'll know that at least if he plans on doing it again that it will involve the possibility of being hurt.  

Unfortunately there are really no quick fixes to this one.  Try and walk tall and not let this tool get at you.

Answer 9

I agree totally with Prince. All I want to add is:

1) Fighting at school = Expulsion

2) Fighting somebody larger with advice you gained from the internet= Possible hospitalization

3) Lucky shot from you = Parents responsible for medical bills which is seriously gonna put a damper on your freedom.

It might seem like a good thing to not take any c*** but in the long run street fighting only leads to trouble in one form or another.

Answer 10

avoid him as much as possible

Answer 11

man have you ever heard viloence is not the answer dont fight him unless he touches you kick his a$$ if you think that happens if you a real man go to a wall and start punching with bare knuckles it helps

Answer 12

never look for a fight and keep tryin to avoid him