Im 14 years old and?

Question

im 15 in 4 weeks. Its my boyfriends birthday soon [2 weeks] he will be 16. We have been together for just 5 weeks.

For his birthday,about 20 of his mates, including me, are camping out.

We are very close and it would be just lovely for me to be with him on his birthday.

1 problem though,im not allowed to go.

What do i say to mum and dad to persuade them to let me go?

And honestly, me and my boyfriend WILL NOT 'do it',hes already told me he has more respect for me!

Even if my parents dont give in,i will definately go,i just have to.! But that will cause more of a problem when i get home!

Help?

Answer 1

Don't go..

coz you are too young and it would be safer if you don't go in your camp...

if your boyfriend loves you,he should accept the reason why your parents didn't allowed you...coz for them,it is better if they don't allow you and your boyfriend to camp out together...they know what's best for you..especially you are a girl..they have to take care of you..

Answer 2

Well, it will sure cause problem. but my advice is to listen to your parents. maybe the reason why they won't let you go is because the care about and they don't want anything bad happen to you. if you really want to go, it's your choice, but you  need to listen to your parents. they've been with you your whole life, and you've only been with you bf for 5 weeks. if you can't go, your bf should understand. he does have respect for you doesn't he? but i realy suggest you listen to you parents.

And please don't lie to them. lying will just make thing even worst. tell them the truth, if there's an adult supervising.  and if there isn't, ask an adult to come. at least a descent one. and yes, you should ask your boyfriend to talk to his parents to talk to yours cuz that might help.

I've been into a lot of trouble not listening to my parents. I don't really know if i should be saying these things to you, because I'm slightly younger.

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I hope this helps. just tell me if you have some problems, i might be able to help.

Answer 3

sit your parents down and talk to them tell them how much you want to go and ask them y they dont want you to go. if its due to s*x drink or drugs put there mind at rest tell them you are not stupid and know that drink and drugs are harmfull. and as for s*x you wont be doing it and you want your mum and dad to trust you tell them you wont let them down. take your phone and stay in contact with them so they know your ok. they just love you and dont want you to come to any harm good luck

Answer 4

Becky your obviously Australian as you said mates and mum. Typical of the Aussie language.

I don't blame you for wanting to go camping with your BF. I have been to Australia, with the Baden Powell Boy Scouts of American, and camping in the outback is the most beautiful anywhere in the world.

Your parents are afraid that at 14 you'll get pregnant if you go on this camp out. Having said all this, please do not disobey your parents wishes. That is the worse kind of disrespect you can give them.

Ask them if you can go. Tell them you'll be with other girls and boys. Make sure they know that you, and other girls if any, will be in separate tents. Let them inspect the equipment that is being taken. Let them inspect the equipment you will be taking. Let them talk to the other people in the group and above all make sure that at least 2 adults will be going with you.

I know 16 year olds think they are adults, but if there is a problem that requires medical attention and first aid, 16 year old do not always know what to do. Especially if this is thier first camping expierence.

Above all, and I know I am repeating this, do not go if your parents say no. That is the worst kind of disrepect you can show them.

Answer 5

well then tell them your going to sleep over someones house or something,LIE about something

Answer 6

tell them there will be an adult there to supervise, that you are in seperate tents, and if they still dont believe you get your b/f's parents to phomne them and reasure them things will be ok

Answer 7

my advice::don't listen to Sheila Mae. No offense to you...but i AM 15, and have been for the past 5&1/2 months. Sure, my lyfe is pretty f****d up at the moment. I smoke, go home with my m8 (whos 16 btw) and walk 26km home in the dark as well as go up to the city with him at 9pm get drunk, smoke, scab money to get home by 8am the next morning. w/e. i have fun. im gonna get stoned with him some time and the two of us have an absolute blast for a few hours. No, we haven't had s*x or anything. coz we're m8s. we've gone out, but nuthin serious.

My mum knows about majority of my night time outings, not the one into the city though, thankfully. I mean, it's bad enough she lectured me about running away from scool with my m8, if she knew that i went up to the city, or that i got drunk, or that i SMOKED!! geez. thats a trip down h**l Lane. But it seems you've decided that you're going to go,no matter what you parents say, so::GO FOR IT!!

you have my full support. You know what you will or will not do, and if you tell your parents what you won't do, and what is going to happen and everything...

my mum hates my m8, coz she says hes a bad influence on me, he probably is...i never skipped school or class till i met him.

Good Luck. XD

Answer 8

well ask them WHY they don't want you to go?

tell them that you would sleep in a separate tent from him, and actually SLEEP IN A SEPARATE TENT.

maybe they don't like the age difference? tell them what your boyfriend told you, and that's all i've got. sorry.

Answer 9

this is a good test for your relationship.. your boyfriend just told you she has lots of respect for you >>> then follow your parents advice

listen>> if your parents find out that your boyfriend respected your parents decision for you not to go to, im sure your parents will think that your boyfriend do love and respect you

how about celebrating your boyfriends birthday in other ways that your parents will allow you

by the way you're still young and a lot of things will happen so don't be too serious to your relationship (i mean not so deep because you might regret it)

Answer 10

You don't mention that there are any other girls going.  Is it just you and 20 guys?  Most parents would see that as a problem.

You have been together 5 weeks.  That means exactly nothing to your parents.  Nor to most people.  

Of course he says he respects you - how else is he going to get you to have s*x with him???

I take it that there are no parents going.  So there is no supervision.  Why exactly do you think your parents would let you go?  Do you think they are stupid?  That they don't care about you?

I guarantee that when you are a parent, you would say no to this too.  I. Guarantee.  It.

Oh - if you go, your parents will come and take you home, embarrassing you in front of everybody.

Sorry I can't be more encouraging.

Answer 11

excuse me mikeae.. but just because she said 'mates' and 'mum' does not mean she is australian!!

Ever heard of a place called jolly old England?!

sounds a tiny bit racist to me.. MATE.