Im 15 and afraid?

Question

most teens are really outgoing and are really into trying something new or arent afraid to take risk(ex:sneaking out the house) teenage stuff like that.i usaully think about it so much like"am i ganna get in trouble for this?" and it kinda bothers me.

what can i do?

Answer 1

i say don't change. ur parets are probably really glad that u're like that. and, not, not all teens are risk-takers, that's just a lie. im not, nor have i ever been, a risk . i'm 18 never got drunk or smoked or went to a really wild party and my friends repect me because of that

Answer 2

Trust me, you don't want to start that.

I lied (a big lie) to my parents for the first time a few days ago, and I got caught, and now I feel awful about it. Not just because I got caught, but because now they won't trust me and because I really worried them. I didn't do anything actually wrong or hurtful (I just hung out with a guy I liked and stayed out too late) but still.

Usual teenage stuff, I think, is more of a hassle than is worth it and ends up sort of being a let down anyway.

Answer 3

i'm 16 and my parents are super strict

but i still do, to a point, what i want

what you can do about your fear to get

caught is use it to your advantage, the

more afraid you are of getting caught the

more cautious you'll be in making your

plans, so chances are you'll actually be

less likely to get caught

yeah it sounds really sneaky and conniving but personally i would never want to deprive myself of being young and reckless, i'm 16 and i'll be old soon and allowed to go out

and that's no fun

Answer 4

just try it...hun you only live once...good luck!

Kara<3

Answer 5

Same situation dont worry about sneaking out just tell your parents where your going just because all your mates are doing it doesnt mean that you HAVE to be yourself thats the best person to be .

Answer 6

Yea its typical for teens to do this but at the same time just because other teens are doing it dont mean you have to, you can do way better than getting in troublw for stuff like that so just dont think about it you know...to get your mind off of it talk to your parents about this that way if you do do something they wont be that surpriised, hope i helped

Answer 7

Dont do anything you have to think twice about. I dont sneak out, Drink, drugs or have s*x. Im 15 and I just enjoy haveing fun.

Answer 8

Why are you worried about feeling like that? There's nothing wrong with feeling mature and responsible =)

Answer 9

Thats a good thing to be like you are! You will get in trouble for sneaking out and stuff like that. A lot of trouble, and there is enough dis respcetful dis honest teens in the world, it needs more like you! Be a good person and respect people older than you!! You will be more well liked.

Answer 10

Well im like that to

i still sneak out, but everytime I get this sick feeling and get panicky but once u start getting crazy its all good:)

Answer 11

It's okay to be like that -- I am!

No, I don't like it all the time, but you will probobly get in trouble.

Your above the kids who get in trouble all the time - you are more  mature, and an overall better kid.

What's wrong with that?

Answer 12

You mean to tell me you actually stop and think somethig through and don't do it if you know you will get in troblem................what is wrong with you? Thatis the most............

Smart thing I have ever heard and you dont like the fact that when all your friends are grounded you are the only one not stuck in your room.

Answer 13

You are much more mature than most kids your age.  Kudos.  You will be very thankful when you are on your way to a successful career, and they are struggling just to make it because they decided to do stupid things, thus becoming parents at the ripe old age of 16.  You also won't wind up raped, dead, etc like others will.

You also will have a lot more freedom than others who choose to do stupid things.  Many of those teens are grounded all summer, and in loads of trouble.

Edit: A thumbs down, probably from someone fixing to be a mom at 16, but the truth hurts.

Answer 14

You're very smart to be afraid...there are so many things that happen to young girls and boys who think that they can get away with anything. Stick to your gut and you will be fine.

Answer 15

I think that is good, why would you want to get rid of a good conscience? I wish I thought that way. =) You shouldn't do bad things because the masses are (i.e. trying drugs, sneaking out of the house, stealing, lying, cheating). That is negative peer pressure. You should continue to do good things, and want to do them. Distance yourself from people who are bad influences on you, or even, be around them and provide positive peer pressure. I'm glad you have good sense and don't do things that you know you shouldn't.

Answer 16

my friend is like that, it can get kinda annoying. i am not trying to be mean just stating my opinion. it is good for you though because later in life you wont regret stupid decision that you made when you were drunk or high, also your parents will trust you. everyone who sneaks out gets caught at some point in time and then you lose your parents trust which is extremely hard to back, so you sneak out more because they wont let you go any were, and then you will most likely me caught again and now they really have no trust in you. so it is kinda like a viscous cycle.

Answer 17

the fact that you can think into the future just prooves thats you are quite abit more mature than those people who jsut sneak out and dont worry about the consequences.

sometimes its good to take risks (mind you, not stupid risks like drinking and driving) to learn from your mistakes

having said that, that doesnt mean that you should jsut go and be a rebel now. if you have any doubt in your mind about something being dangerous or wrong, then dont do it or else youll probably end up regretting it, and wishing that you didnt.

Answer 18

sounds like your the smart one of all your friends  if you thing  youll be in trouble if you do something ,,then ya know it is just wrong,,,dont follow  your friends...

Answer 19

It just shows that you respect your parents and dont want to go against their rules. I never had to disobey my parents or sneak out of the house, i would just ask and most of the time i was aloud.

Most of the time if a parent doesnt want you to do something then its for a good reason. So just listen to them.

Answer 20

Thats good that you think that way! That proves that you have a conscience telling you that you know its wrong. Don't get sucked into peer pressure, just because other kids may be sneaking out of their houses doesn't mean its right or cool. Don't be a follower. If other kids jumped off a cliff, would you too?

Respect your parents, listen to them and obey them. They know whats right.

Answer 21

Keep thinking you're going to get in trouble. Because you sure will. Not to mention, my mom always used to say, "The only thing open past 10 are your legs."

Answer 22

when it comes to being afraid of being outgoing and having fun like other kids your age, you just need to know what fun is to you and that doesn’t mean that it depends on what is fun for others. Fear of getting caught for doing something you know you’re not supposed to be doing is normal, but at the same time you shouldn’t allow that fear to take you over. Have fun when you want to have fun, with in reason of course. If skipping curfew isn’t your idea of fun then don't do it. when you get older you'll realize that people respect you more for being yourself rather than breaking your back to be something that your not. So basically you should live in a way that makes you happy, as long as you’re not hurting anyone or breaking any laws. But i will say that taking a couple of risks and over coming a couple of your fears could be a good thing for you. And to be honest no one expects you to be perfect, you can s***w up or get in trouble a little every once in awhile and still come out ok.

Answer 23

Honestly I've done many things because of peer pressure. Hold on to the fear when you think your gonna get in trouble and don't give in. I knew many of teenagers like you when i was younger. They are the ones now who have made something of themselves and have fallen short of all the trouble of the fellow peers. There's nothing wrong with you. You just WANT to do the right thing.

Answer 24

don't worry!ur the good girl in all this..unless you actually want to break the law, don't listen to ur consience?but really, i give u props cuz ur good