Im 15 and being abused by my boyfriend!!?

Question

Me and my boyfriend whos 17, were both kicked out of our house when we told our parents i was pregnant. Now we are staying at one of his friends places in washington dc. They tell me that they do have jobs but won't tell me anything about it but they are getting payed somehow ( im scared they could be doing something illegal). Yesterday my boyfirend was getting controlling and somwhat aggressive with me, he was gripping my arm and grabbing the back of my neck. This morning he grabbed my arm and pulled me out of bed, then he pushed me against the wall and forced me to have s*x with him. Now i'm really scared and want to get out as soon as possible. Many people yesterday gave me many options but im scared to call and him find out or since he's telling me i need to stay in the house, i don't want to leave and get caught and him do something else to me. PLEASE PLEASE HELP AND QUICK IM NOT SURE HOW LONG THEY'LL BE AT WORK FOR

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PLEASE PLEASE HELP

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Answer 1

idk, maybe break up with him.

I still think this is a very outlandish story....

Answer 2

First of all shame on your parents. Yes you made  a mistake... a big one, but we don't kick our family members when they are down! DOn't stay in your current situation, it sounds to me that  your boyfriend may be involved in drug sales etc. and chances are if he is selling, he is using as well. Before you got pregnant, did he ever hurt you physically in any way? The stress of being a teenage dad  is probably freaking him out, but that doesn't give him the right to hit you ar to force you to have s*x with him. You need to leave while everyone is at work. GO home to your parents and talk to them alone, if they wont help you , there are many organizations available to help pregnant teens.

http://www.optionline.org/teen.html?wcw=...  Copy and paste this sight in and look at it, it has phone numbers and contact info for help. Good luck and be careful

Answer 3

I'm sure if you call your parents and explain the situation, they'll take you back in.

Answer 4

OK first thing is protect your baby. That mean s get out and away from this creep. He sounds like he is doing something illegal to pay the bills. maybe gang related. I would get away asap! Not to mention if he gets into trouble with the law he will sell you out to cover is ***. He will bring you right down with him. Whether you were involved or not!

Once a man lays his hands on a women it can only get very worse for the girl. He will start hitting you next. He may hit you so hard that you Will lose the baby! He is an abuser! If he is grabbing and hitting you he will do this to your child.

You must protect yourself and your baby. Stop making up excuses for this creep. I know that you will try to rationalize this in your head that he will never do it again etc. But he will. You need to call your parents and tell them what the heck is going on. Heaven forbid he kills you. At least your parents will know who to blame.

He sounds like a very angry man. Stay clear of those types. Move out now!!! Get off the computer.. If your parents will not let you come home go to a shelter for battered women. They will take you underground and he will not be able to hurt you or your baby!

Hurry up. Pack a bag. Don't say anything to him. Just go. NOW!!!!!

Answer 5

if you hav relatives, then call them and ask them to take you in.

if that doesn't work i'm pretty sure that there is an abuse number for u to call.

Answer 6

get out the house right away and go to local fire dept. they have to help you

Answer 7

u need to contact the police!!! if u stay he could be harmful to the baby someday!!!

Answer 8

Grab everything you can, walk out the door and head to the closest police station.  Your "boyfriend" has physically abused and raped you.  They can help you press charges, and call your parents and explain the situation to them.

YOU NEED TO LEAVE NOW, IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE.!!!!

DON'T ENDANGER YOUR LIFE, AND THE LIFE OF YOUR BABY.

GO NOW!

Answer 9

If this is real (which I doubt), you must call the nearest shelter immediately. Protect yourself and your little baby.

Answer 10

You need to leave him because all its going to do is get worse. There should be places you can go that even law enforcement will not know the exact location. Call local law enforcement and see if there is any battered women's homes in your area that they could give you the number to.  

Answer 11

u need to call ur parents and tell them wats happening and if they except u back get a restraining order on him he can harm U and the BABY so when he is not home pack ur bags and RUN!also if ur parents do not except u go to a different family realitve they might and if nothing works out go tol a womens shelter the could help u and stay away from that boyfriend!

Answer 12

Go to a hostel or somewhere safe just go somewhere. Don't stay with someone who is abusing you.

Good luck with whatever you do.

Answer 13

Jesus! What has this world come to?

Answer 14

don't say nutting leave, move back to your parents house tell them everything tell them your sorry, your life must continue.  Good luck

                 Call 911 and get out

Answer 15

Call your parents and inform them of the situation. Even if they kicked you out of the house no parent will tolerate their child being abused. You have to get away from him because it's only going to get worse. You need to reach out to someone now.

Answer 16

I understand that it isn't as easy to leave as people tell you it is. So I'm not going to tell you to just walk out the door. Here's what you can do, however:

1) Stay out of your boyfriend's way as much as possible. Get out of the apartment for as long as you can. Walk. Whatever. Avoid contact as much as possible. That way, he can't get mad at you, and won't hit you.

2) Find a job, right away. You need to work to get independent. Get whatever work you can, and tell your boyfriend and housemates that you make much less money than you really do. Spend the amount you tell them you make by contributing to rent, etc, and use it to buy clothes or food or whatever you need. But save the rest and don't tell ANYONE about it.

3) When you've saved up enough pay, try to find a roommate. You can search for roommates on Craigs list, etc and in DC, can probably find something cheap. THIS is when you just walk out the door. Don't tell them you're leaving. Just go. But first, tie up all your loose ends. Don't take anything of theirs, don't leave behind anything that's yours. Just make a clean break.

This is, of coruse, if you can't move back in with your parents. If you can do this, then for God's sakes, do!

And if your boyfriend tries to hit you again or hurt you, hurt him back. Don't restrict yourself. If he's endangering you or your baby, fight dirty.

Good luck.  

Answer 17

Walk out the door NOW.

Go back to your parents and tell them everything. If you can't, go to another relative - aunty, gran, cousin - or to the parents of a friend - or to a teacher. If you can't do that, go to the police who will be able to point you at a charity or women's shelter who can help you.

Get out NOW. You can do it for your baby's sake. You need to be away from these people. Deep breath and just GO. He is not your boyfriend at this point, he is your abductor.

Answer 18

when hes sleep knock him out with something and  escape. I hope everything

turns out ok.

Answer 19

RAPE sweetie

grab as much stuff as u can get out of the house

go strait to the police and they will eb able to help you from there

be brave hun , the police are there to help !  they will know what to do and they will protect you.

xxxx

Answer 20

if this is true

your parents should not have kicked you out of the house- that is not the responsible thing an adult should do

but if you call your parents and tell them- i'm sure they'll understand and take you back

or call the police

Answer 21

First of all, your parents must be pretty immature to kick they're own daughter out of the house. Its uncalled for. Tell them what happened and tell them you want to come home.

Answer 22

If he feels that he has to put his hands on you then it's not worth it. Both of you still have some growing up to do considering your age. I don't know if you are a Christian are not but in the time of trouble, God can help you turn to him and give him all of your problems, I promise he can fix them. You have your whole life ahead of you, and I don't want you to loose it over some insecure boyfriend. Pray to God, go back home and talk to your parents, everything will be okay, I am praying for you. God loves you!

Answer 23

Alright call the police.

Go to your parents.

They made you and would never want anything done.

It's not safe.

They could hurt your baby.

Answer 24

Can you find a shelter or emergency center for teens?  If you have no idea whom to call, try your local police department.  You don't have to tell them everything; just ask how you can get in touch with a shelter for teens who have nowhere to go.  The staff there will be able to help you figure out what your options are and decide on a course of action.  They can also help you talk to your parents if you want to try that again.  

Take care of yourself and baby - make that call now.  

Answer 25

Ring your parents.

I'm sure they don't want their daughter and grandchild at risk.

Answer 26

guys r sick.how cud u trust a guy n leave ur home.i know ur parents kicked u out of their house but not out of their lives fst of all u have made a disastrous mistake but still its ok v all r humans n r bound 2 make mistakes. now u can do jst 1 thing . .immediately contact the nearest police station or women's shelter. OR U CUD ALSO TRY N ASK 4 HELP FROM UR NEIGHBOURS, SOME MOTHERLY FIGURE KINDA LADY. m sure ull get out of this situation.n once u have escaped try 2 convince ur parents they r only ray of hope 4 u 4 ur further life. they hav kicked u out just b'coz they nvr xpctd dis from u. no parent wud  like 2 harm their child. its just that they wanted u 2 realise ur mistake but not in this way. m sure once they will come 2 know about all the **** u have n u are gowin through they will forgive u 4 all the blunders u have made. n do not forget 2 teach ur so called boyfriend a toughf lesson. god bless ya!

Answer 27

Pack up your bag and leave now. Get any money you can find and just go. Call your parents or call a friend and leave.

Best of Luck