Im 15 and i want my baby but my family is to controlling.

Question

i have found out im adopted and i moved out after a string of arguments. i have now discovered im pregnant and im only 15. my boyfriend and me want the baby so i moved in with him. i told my dad (adopted dad) and he said i did it as a way to get back at him for hurting me etc... i have 4 brothers and 3 sisters and my mum left for drink problems. they all said i have to give my baby up for adoption or have a abortion. i had a big fight with them and left. my dad has wrote me a letter saying if i go against him and have the baby he will press charges against my boyfriend and will fight for custurdy of my child. can he do this and how can i stop him?

Answer 1

Do whatever you think is right :) It doesnt matter what anyone else thinks because it's your child..

Answer 2

If your boyfriend is 18 or over he can get in trouble for statutory rape.

Answer 3

yes he can and your bf is a child abuser  

Answer 4

U R NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE A MOTHER...

15...!!! r u kidding me...?

listen to ur dad nd complete ur education first...

Answer 5

You are truly Clueless.

If "1" were rational

and "5" was marginal...

and "10" was AS CLUELESS as a gal can be...

You'd easily score an "18".

I am so sure you had s*x to get back at your dad.

IF THAT IS TRUE - what a great reason to get pregnant!

You SURE SHOWED HIM....

oh and used an innocent life as a pawn in the process.

Do you have ANY idea how much a month a child costs, to raise them until age 18?   No you don't.

Do you know how much MORE special an ADOPTED DAD is, then a BIOLOGICAL ONE?

Again... no YOU don't

It would be the VERY BEST THING for the child - IF he did take CUSTODY...  (not custurdy - you're the only t**d here)  of that poor child.  Perhaps this one will grow up to be MORE GRATEFUL.

Very few people I hear about - are a complete WASTE of DNA.  I'm afraid that you are.

Answer 6

Aww. Keep your baby do not get an abortion or adoption.

The courts will let u keep ur baby.

Ur the babys mom.

DO NOT KILL THAT POOR BABY!!

Answer 7

Well, as it was under aged s*x your dad may be granted custody so the trick to keeping your child - and this will be difficult - is to talk to him. You have about 9 months to make him see sense! You have to swallow your pride, even if you were in the right, and apologize for the arguments. Tell him he has to understand that finding out you were adopted was a difficult change for you to accept and that him taking the baby from you wouldn't achieve anything but more arguing.

If possible try and get your boyfriend's parents on your side. If you have their support then they could help you fight for your baby, as if their son also wants to keep it they won't want  to see him upset.

If you want this baby then don't let anyone make you get rid of it. I think your dad is upset about the arguments and your mum leaving but trying to take custody of your child is wrong but if talking turns into an argument then he can gain the upper hand so try and tell him your point calmly. (That is the most important part). If he starts arguing, don't respond, just keep talking calmly.

Answer 8

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

ABORTION DONT BE A KILLER

ADOPTION YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Answer 9

Your parents can not make you have an abortion or give up your baby for adoption.  Even though you are young you still have a legal right to your baby.  As for your boyfriend, find out what the age of sexual consent is in your state.  In some states 15 year  olds can consent to s*x with a 17 yer old.  I think your dad is just upset, be mature and call him tell him you did not mean to get pregnant that you want this baby and that you need his help.  He loves you and he will calm down and do the right thing.