Im 15 and mabye pregnant..?

Question

Okay so i am 15 and i haven't had my period for about 2 months. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative but i still haven't had my period its now 2 1/2 months and i have been crying every time i see things about babies and not feeling good i have gained like 3 pounds but I'm too scared to tell my parents they said if i ever got pregnant i would need to find a new place to live. I have a doctors appointment to get the shot of birth control what if I'm pregnant?? will it hurt the baby ahhh.

Answer 1

((((Arianna))))   Many people answer too quickly with sarcasm as if YOUR feelings don't matter.  Guess what? THEY do MATTER because YOU matter!  

Your details show that you have come from an abusive background.  NO ONE knows the challenges and battles that we must win with that kind of past.  I am proud of you for being forthright with that information, although it may make some people uncomfortable to KNOW that happens to some women... THEY should TRY being the person it happens to . First your the victim of the assault, THEN you are the victim of police,family and friends as they drop you from their minds... in order to protect themselves from your pain...

Anyways... it seems like you already KNOW,  NEVER behave LIKE a victim~ OR the bad guy wins.  YOU have to have  enough strength to NOT LET others talk you into sexual situations UNTIL YOU are more secure and older.  As a s*x victim , it is too easy to "fall for"  flattery from people that only wish to use you.   Get YOUR strength built up and KNOW that YOU have the choice to be a strong and helpful person to others that have suffered.  

....  ahhh, as for your question.... sometimes you can miss periods due to  the shedding of  your uterus being faulty, too much shedding can mean a build up and blockage of exit .   If this is happening , then it is quite scary when the blockage passes, but NOT harmful.

Answer 2

Wow you are old enough to have s*x but too young to know anything about birth control. If your parents allow you to be on birth control then they shouldn't  care if you are having s*x(with s*x comes a baby) So I would tell your parents ,and your doctor because the shot WILL hurt the baby and cause defects when its born! YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO HAVE s*x.  

Answer 3

I really feel for you, you must be scared. I'm sorry, but the only way to deal with this is to take a deep breath and tell your doctor.

If you really don't want your parents to know you can go to your local sexual health clinic, which are all confidential.

Don't hide from your problem, if you pretend it's not there, it doesn't mean it will go away

Answer 4

That happened to me. I didn't have my period this year from April to late June. I was freaking out too thinking I must be pregnant, but I never took a test. I was too afraid for the results. I'm not pregnant. When I finally got my period I about had a heart attack with excitement. Don't worry about it.  

Answer 5

You didn't say if you even had s*x recently...so maybe your period is just late.

And since when do pediatricians give out BC?

Answer 6

tell the Dr. everything- you must have another test before the shot. Bring your mom but let her stay in the lobby until you know for sure and if possitive, have the Dr. there for support when you tell her. By law, Drs. cant perform anything-even shots- without parents permission! Tell her how scared you are, she'll be upset but will be there for you! When I was growing up, Dad told me and my sisters that if we EVER got pregnant, we had to marry the guy and move out, even if he was Jack the Ripper!! When my neice was born (my sister didnt know she was preggers, delivered the baby by herself at home), Dad helped her finalize her divorce and lived with him. When I got pregnant, he told me I didnt have to get married and the baby & I could live there too. I married the doofus, and Dad still wouldnt let me move in with him because he lived with his brother but Dad wouldnt let him live with us so I didnt move out til 2 months later when we found an apt. and I had our daughter 3 days later..and then 3 more kids. Think of it this way, you thought you were grown up enough to have s*x, youre grown enough for the consequences!

Answer 7

My ******* God children.

Don't you guys know anything about ******* condoms? Seriously!

If you think you might be pregnant GO GET A PREGNANCY TEST.There are no psychics here.

Answer 8

And did you do 'things'?

Answer 9

Sometimes birthconroll shots can affect your monthly cycle, pending on which one you are taking. The best advice I can ask you is to not let your mom come into the doctor with you,  and tell him you may be pregnant and about your cycle changes, no one would know better than the doctor what to tell you.  

Answer 10

if you are mature enough to have s*x you need to be mature enough to talk to your parents about it. and do NOT get the shot until you confirm you are  not pregnant.

Answer 11

You need to tell them NOW.If you are pregnant that shot might kill the baby.This is what you get for s******g around hon.

You were adult enough to have s*x, not be an adult and face the consequences.You may have to go live with a relative or give the baby up for adoption, but that's better than killing it.