Im 15 and pregnant how do i tell my mum????

Question

im pregnant i know its a young age 15 but this is all ive ever wanted and my mum knows that but i just dont think she is goin to take it very well HELP. .x

Answer 1

Just tell her. She will come around eventually and help you. Believe me she will be by your side the whole way. You are stressing yourself out by not telling her. I felt the same way when I told my mother and I am 27 years old. Good luck

Answer 2

mom is a forgiving person I mean whats said is done its like death and taxes its guaranteed thats done its guaranteed so fess up so the forgiving can start and make room for happiness

Answer 3

now that ur having a baby u have to be grown up so tell her cause ur mom is going to find out sometime  and u probably should've waited to have a baby but it to late so tell her

Answer 4

watch the movie Juno and it'll all make sense

Answer 5

wich mom would want her 15 year old pregnant?

Oh and just say "Mom im Pregnant"

Answer 6

I am 15 too, and know what you are going thru...just be honest. Did you see the movie "Juno"?

Answer 7

You're having a baby.

Time to be an adult.

Make your own decisions.

Answer 8

you're stupid. too young.

Answer 9

well y don't u tell sum1 else and den get Dem 2 tell her or u could text her or leave her a note and just wait x*x

Answer 10

tell her....if u cant tell her directly then leave a note and go out somewhere....but later you will have to face her...but at least you won't have to face the humiliation of telling her directly...all the best:)

Answer 11

yeah alot of parents dont act too well when their teenager gets pregnant. your gonna have a hard life

your party days are over.

tough luck

btw. you made an adult choice, so act like one and just tell your parents.

Answer 12

my best advice is for you to sit her down and talk to her tell her there will be a miture of emotions. but you'll eventually get her all support just be calm and honest.it'll be okay.rem always no one  can force you to do anything that you dont want

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Answer 13

at the end of the days shes your mum she may be dissapointed at 1st due to your age but its because she has your best interests at heart but she'll come around and she'll support you throughout this my dad didnt take me being pregnant very well but he come round and now he cant wait for another little grandson you'll be fine just find the right time to do it good luck with your mum and your pregnancy enjoy it its a really wonderful experience which your mum will want to share with you x x x

Answer 14

You just have to get out there and say it. I'm 18 and pregnant, but when I told my mom she didn't really care, because I'm  not living with her or my dad anymore. But you have to say it soon.

Good Luck and I hope you have planned this out.

Answer 15

The best way to approach this situation is responsibly. You need to do your research--figure out how you're going to handle this situation. If you keep the baby, how will you support it? If you give it up for adoption, do some research on adoption agencies. Figure out what's going on with your baby--how big it is, what has developed, etc--so that your baby becomes a baby instead of just some figment of your imagination.

Then (gulp) you wait until the right moment and say, "Mom, I need to talk to you about something." Sit down with her, and very calmly explain the situation.

Good luck!!!

Answer 16

Well, you wanted to be a grown up -- here you are, you got your wish.  18 more years of putting yourself second and putting your child first -- congratulations. So sit down and tell your mom and get it over with.  Believe me, this is NOT going to be the hardest thing you have to do in the next 18 years.  Just think, in 15 or 16 years, your daughter may be telling YOU that she's pregnant -- what fun!

Of course, if you have no plans to marry, you haven't figured out how to finish school, you have no job, and no visible way of supporting the baby -- then maybe I can understand why your mother isn't going to take it very well.  Did you think she was going to be EXCITED about having a baby in the house again?  She's already raised her children, and now here you are, dragging in another one like a stray cat.  

"It's all I've ever wanted!"  You know, that is the most selfish thing I have EVER heard.  It's all about you, isn't it?  What YOU want -- not what's best for the baby. You have the next 20-25 years to have a baby, what is the freakin' hurry?

Answer 17

sweetheart you just have to come right out and tell her. I'm sure she'll have guessed by now anyways, mums have this way of just 'knowing' these things. And I'm sure she'll be more understanding than you think.

Good luck with the future, I hope you've thought this through properly.

Answer 18

you just tell her. i was 21 when i got pregnant and when i told my mom she only cried for a week.you shouldnt be having babies at the age of 15 to begin with but everything happens for a reason. when you turn 20 you ll understand what i mean,its alot of work and you have no freedom whats so ever. my boy just turned 1 and hes been crying for the last 3 days non stop. little girls think its all fun and games because they get this image that all a baby does is sleep and they are so cute, and  you get to buy all these cute clothes but in a few months realty will hit.

your mom will be pretty upset only because she knows that at 15 its way to young and she will most likely have to do the raising of that baby. and just think, what are you going to do with no grade 12 and what kind of job are you going to get at the age of 15. i dont think its fair to you, your baby and your mom. i hope you take good care of that baby and raise it up to be a good person.

Answer 19

You're right it is a young age, but why should that stop you?

So what if you're not 30, and married? Fact is you have a baby now and you need to forget what other people think. In a few months you'll have a baby relying on you and loving you more than anything. So who cares what people think?

Telling your mum, as you said, will be difficult. At first she'll be angry, probably be upset and will know doubt want to throttle the guy who got you pregnant. However, once she sees how well you are dealing with it and how mature you CAN be, she'll come round. Especially when she sees her grandson/daughter. She'll be over the moon and will forget everything.

Right now, you need to get yourself a job, sit your mum down, tell her and deal with everything maturely. If she shouts, don't shout back, whatever you do.

Good luck!

Answer 20

tell her when she is in a good mood.

Answer 21

You are about to have a baby which means that you need to start being responsible. A good place to start would be by telling her that you are pregnant and that you plan to keep the baby. Don't be surprised though if she cries, doesn't talk or seems angry...these are all common reactions. It doesn't meant that she isn't going to support you. It's just her way of dealing with the news.

Answer 22

when ur mum has calmed down and the info has sunk in properly sit down and have a 'grown up' convosation with her and discuss what you r going to do and what will happen now,it will take her a while to get used to it. You r goin 2 find it tough and even though u may not think so now it doesnt get easier spec when ur friends r goin out on the town and u cnt find a babysitter or going on a girlie holz that u cant go on so u have 2 think of everything, babies grow up (quickly aswell) and they rnt cute all the time