Im 15 hes 32...HELP; but i do have strong feelings for him.

Question

okay so my parents found out about me and my "boyfriend" hes 32 I'm a month shy of 16. there is a POSSIBILITY I'm pregnant by him. im not sure. but my parents are trying to press charges on him for suspicion of us having s*x. and everything. iI'mnot sure what to do.

I DON'T WANT RUDE OR MEAN COMMENTS>

i just want to know peoples opinions on what could happen

i mean they have no clue that we fer surely had s*x or anything they just know we did kiss and held hands and that he snuck over to see me at my house one night. && some text messages

HELP?

Answer 1

well first of all you shoudnt have gotten with this guy... and second if you parents do charge him.. he will get charged with statatory rape... or something like that... we are looking at him with a long time in prison... and you with a baby a the age of 16 and the father's in jail..... sounds like fun!!

Answer 2

He,as the adult is legally and morally responsible for this whole thing,which is why these laws exist,for your protection.If you were both adults the difference in age wouldn't matter,but you're not yet,and he did this knowingly.

Answer 3

um... CALL 911

and no im not tryign to be funny. NO 32 YEAR OLD GUY IN HIS RIGHT MIND GOES HUNTING FOR 15YEAR OLD GIRLS!!!!!!!! HE SHOULDNT HAVE EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT TOUCHING YOU AND YOU SHOULDNT HAVE LET HIM IN YOUR HOUSE TO HAVE s*x WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you need help and so does he...... find your parents and explain this to them cuz this is just wrong...  

Answer 4

Your parents could charge him with statutory rape.  He is old enough to be your dad, isn't that gross?  If you're pregnant, your parents have a right to be upset.  Are you prepared to have kids?  finish school?  get a job?  You need to grow up and be more responsible.  Good luck!

Answer 5

You should try to go for someone your own age. This is coming from a 19 year old who has been there. You two aren't on the same level and it'd be best to cut it off. He likes you because you're easy to impress, more trusting than older women and easier to please than older women.

For his safety and your own you should go your own ways. You'll find someone your own age that you have more in common with and can spend your life with. When you're 25 he's going to be 42. That's probably around how old your dad is now. That isn't healthy for you. You need time to grow and mature in your own ways without someone that has already gone through it holding you down.

I'm not trying to say you're not old enough to make your own decisions or know who you like. But even just on the fact that he's so much older and still may have gotten you pregnant. At the very least he should be mature enough to avoid that. He's going for someone younger because he can't find anyone his own age. You really deserve better.

Answer 6

My opinion-

If you two really loved eachother you would have waited, that way you wouldn't get pregnant at such a young age, and he wouldn't go to jail.

Stop seeing him, you are too young. End of story.

Answer 7

well if your parents file charges and if you are pregnant and they have a DNA test done that show he is the father then he will go to jail for statutory rape.  The only thing you can do now is hope you are not pregnant and if you are not then also stop seeing this guy.  I know it will be hard but do you want to see him in jail?

Answer 8

he's in big trouble cause of you. You should have told him no and that you were just 15.  My friend went through this and all she did was deny all the aligations that the parents tried to do and the courts did not do anything cause they didn't have prooof to show the judge.  They needed proof and if she denied it, there wasn't any proof, just ridiculous claims from  the parents, but again the parents had no proof.    

Answer 9

WTF? sorry about my rudeness but like wow

yes he will go to prison and now your gunna

have a baby congrats but the baby daddy

will be in jail

Answer 10

He could end up in jail if the authorities were to find out.

Lemme just say, not "rude" or "mean," that you really need to find a person more worthy than a 32 year-old. This guy lived his life, had his fun, had his teen years, and is now trying to take away yours. It's not right.

When you are a parent I'm sure you will not want your daughter to date someone twice her age, who will never tell her what his real motives are.

Just think. The only way this would be possible is if he would be willing to wait on you, 2 years... That's 730 days. If you know him not to be that type of person, why involve yourself with him in the first place?

Answer 11

i agree with tht nicole person! no offense

Answer 12

Holy cheese balls. He is in a heap of trouble. If you really love this guy, you must not have contact with him at all, until after you are 18.

You must realize he can go to jail, or prison? You are under age and he is considered a pedophile, totally against the law. He should of had better sense than to get involved with you. I hope you are not pregnant, for both your sakes. Go to planned parenthood, you can go without your parents consent, get a test done, you don`t have to volunteer his age. They by law have to report him if you do.

Answer 13

sorry, but you should of been more careful. PLus don't listen to people.  if you are SURE that he loves you and you love him, then you there is noting wrong with it. But, your parents thing... deny, deny, deny. and if you are pregnant, don't tell them now. wait a long while, because if they already have the police involved then your baby can be used as evidence, but doing DNA test. right now you are walking on eggshells, you have to plan all your moves carefully. and be sure that there is NO POSSIBLE WAY your parents can see you question on yahoo.

Answer 14

There is something very wrong with a 32-year old man who would sneak into the home of a 15-year old girl's home.  Your parents are right to seek legal help in prosecuting this guy.  He can be charged with many things!  You're a minor child living at home.  He can't enter without their permission.