Im 15 n my boyfriend fina b 19, i don't know if im pregnant yet, i b d**n if i tell my mom, what should i do?

Question

we have been together for a year and two months, i practically disrepected my mom to be with him, she dosnt even know that we been havin s*x, she thinks it's just been one time...i've been sleepin with him over a year...idk how im gonna explain to my mom how i got pregnant...i don't need for him for him to go to jail, cuz then i don't have help with our child, my mama already been tellin me if i do get pregnant im gonna be kicked out, my stepdad lazy no-job havin *** pisses me off anyway, my mom is sick and helpless for 4 years, around the time my dad died, what should i do doh?

Answer 1

i vote for abortion.

Answer 2

Well I'm 16 so I'm not just a adult trying to tell you "the right thing" but your going to have to tell her, if she kicks you out and doesn't support you then it's her mistake and there's plenty of people and programs that'd be happy to help. Even though I know you love your boyfriend he knew the consequences of having s*x with a 15 yr old and he has to deal, so just worry about yourself. Things will work out. Just worry about you and your baby and mom because even though you have disrespected her in the past doesn't mean she won't forgive you and help you through this hard time. It's a hard mistake to deal with but what happened, happened.

Also I use to be doing the same stuff as you and the only person that can help is God, even if you don't go to chruch pray that he helps you through this tough time and even if it don't seem like it's working-it is, just not how you expect. I'll pray for you and your baby.

good luck and God bless /

Answer 3

you shoulda thought about that before you stated having s*x with your 19 year old bf.

haa thats just sick what kind of 19 year old would wanna sleep with a 15 year old child. thats just sad.

Answer 4

First you should stay in school so you can take care of your child better than your parents did. Second you should drop the attitude. People are willing to help, but it is much more likely they will help when there's not an attitude coming with it.

If you don't know that you are pregnant then you need to stop having s*x now. Find out-go to a health clinic and get tested. If you are then seek counseling on what to do. If you aren't then you need to start using multiple forms of birth control.

As for the boyfriend and the mom-look at the people around you. Most likely that your mom will still be there if and when you and your boyfriend split up. Blood is always thicker than water, no matter how much you love him.

Finally, listen to your mother. If you don't want her rules then be an adult that you think you are. Move out, work after school and support yourself with a legitimate job. It's much harder than you can imagine.  

Answer 5

lol i was in the same situation except the i'm a single mother, before i told my mom that i was pregnant, i asked her what would she do if i got pregnant she said that she would kick me out, i'm now live with her and my 9month baby, and i got pregnant at 15 now 17] talk to your man first and talk about what you going to do [do not consider abortion] and both of you go talk to your mom and let her know, i know is going to be hard at first but she'll get over herself

Answer 6

maybe you shouldn't have s*x when you're only 15. Don't worry, it isn't just your fault. A 19 year old should know not to have s*x with 15 year old kids.

Answer 7

You need to see a doctor

You may have no choice, in the state I live in, the hospital have to tell the police if a underage girl had a baby with an person above 18

It's against the law in many states for a 19 year old to have s*x with a 15, and he started when you were 14.  That is his problem, he is old enough to know he can get into trouble

Tell your mom

You can look into adoption

She may surprise you

Answer 8

First of all, you should go back to school and take some english grammar courses.

Second, don't fret, because you don't know if you are pregnant.  

Third, learn about protection, get on the pill, use condoms, spermicide, the sponge, a diaphragm... the whole nine yards, then you woudn't be in this situation.

Fourth, consider abstinence.  If you aren't old enough to talk to your parents openly about s*x, you aren't old enough to be having s*x.

Fifth, if you do get pregnant, your boyfriend will go to jail.  If you are willing to have s*x with him, then you are willing to let him go to jail and live the rest of his life as a s*x offender because you wouldn't keep your panties on.

Answer 9

if ur 15 and u say that u been having s*x with ur bf for over a year then u were 14 when u started having s*x with him? if u weren't ready for a baby at 14...and ur not ready for a baby at 15...then you shouldn't b having s*x. if you are worried about him going to jail now....you shoulda thought about that when u first decided to have s*x. as a matter if fact he should have thought about that when he decided to start  dating 14 year olds. its ur decision to tell your mom. if you go to the doctor and get a blood test done and it comes bak positive they can't tell your mom.  I suggest you get a test taken and hope that its negative. mayb you'll learn your lesson and use a condom next time or even do what other children your age are doing now...focusing on skool and not on 19 year old boys and s*x....

Answer 10

wow. your in for it girl. thats illegal to have s*x with a minor. you will NOT like living on your own at 15. your too young. i had a baby at 18 and i have only lived on my own WITH a husband for 1 year and i am almost 21 and its hard for US. he may stick around and all but how can he be there if hes in jail? you should have listend to your mom. you made a mistake but if you are not pregnant- i would suggest comming clean to your mom and getting your life straightened out ASAP. if  you are though.... pray.

Answer 11

um.. use a condom next time? go on b/c? --> if u already are pregnant then go to a maternity home since you might get kicked out.. get a part tim job .n raise your child with your without the baby daddy

Answer 12

well too late to say you should have listened to your mom.  Sounds like your bf is no better than your step dad since he couldn't even take the necessary precautions to protect his girlfriend.  She's gonna find out about it eventually so you might as well just try being honest for a change and telling her what has happened.  You don't have to explain how you got pregnant, she knows.  Sorry to say but this guy is a creep and he deserves to go to jail for sleeping with a little girl who is clearly way to immature to handle the consequences (physical and emotional) of s*x.