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Im 16 and i have a massive crush on my 30-something yr old british chem teacher. What should i do bout it??

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I dont know what to do..

should i keep the crush going

or should i try and get over him??

help me!

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  1. hi there.

    id like to help you on this, and..maybe enlighted you so that you will understand things :-)

    first of all, IT IS NORMAL FOR YOU TO LIKE HIM. having said that, it is also quite normal for you to admire someone of the opposite s*x because that's what we were made for.

    ALso, it is quite attractive for younger women (such as you) to admire stable, talented, strong (emotionally and to an extent, Physically) men. PASSION of what men do is also a plus factor for guys. In anything Men do, as long as they are passionate about what theyre doing, it sure is a PLUS factor for you younger girls, right? (correct me if im wrong)

    I should know, because i am 32. i am working. I have a stabl job, i am emotionally stable now compared to when i i was younger, and i have had my share of relationships with women that are younger than i am. I should know.

    Having said all these, i just want to tell you THAT ITS OKAY TO LIKE HIM.

    AND IT STOPS THERE. dont even try to take it to another level or any level that may be.

    Someday, you will see this as a phase in your life. Im not saying that you and HIM aren't posibble to be a couple. All we are saying here ( if i am quite okay to assume some of the opinions of people answering this question) is that:

    THIS IS PART OF GROWING UP, but just keep it to a Mum. you should know that you are still a student and your priority right now is your grades, your future, your "growing up" and your happiness now.

    be thankful that you are able to admire him, but there are just things left seen, and not touched. There are just things better off felt and not involved.

    The future is so bright for you... and having a crush on him is just part of you growing up. TRUST ME, life will get more interesting if you will meet more people, like more guys, and eventually graduate, then be able to make a career of yourself...then LAUGH THIS TIME OFF coz you were still young and life is good!

    do take care of yourself and do well with your studies. :-)

    in choosing, be wise...but in life, always be happy!


  2. just let it pass you he is 30 way too old for you. Also its just a crush, and ive had thoses on my teacher but they pass sooner or later.

  3. NOTHING, you do nothing, u keep ur relationship with him completely professional and u dont end up on tha evening news

  4. ... gross..

    get over him.. puppy love - its small, it'll end

  5. write a letter to him and handed to him.

  6. I think you should try and get over him! its for the better...

  7. O_o

    just be careful hun ^-^ and remeber u aren't legal yet...so he can get into big trouble...

    and wut will ur parents do? o.o

    haha just follow ur heart ^-^

  8. i say if you really like him and u think that he likes you back then go for it you dont have very many shots at luv. but him being your teacher and all is a bad thing and could get him in trouble. and there is no age difference between love. dont let anyone make you feel bad you are who u are and you like who u like no one can ever can control that and no one should ever try. but then agan im only 15 myself. but i am sick of ppl acting like we have no idea of life and wats going on but we do and the older ppl are just annoyed that they never followed there heart so yea if that helped to answer your question then thats good if it didnt im sorry haha hope all goes well =]

  9. No, these people are dumb, you probably have real feelings for him, go for it. Probably be one of the best experiences of your life.

    Here are the dumbass questions from the girl above me who told you that you were gross:

    I had the tiniest crush on him about 4months ago and he started liking me too (but more than i liked him)...?

    In Singles & Dating - Asked by Angel_Baby - 1 answer - 2 months ago - Resolved

    My parents won't let me date, I need some arguments to convince them to let me?
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