Im 17 an becouse my mum an dad found out i was talking to a boy

Question

just talking with they do not alow me to do.I am not aloud to go anywhere on my own they have broke all contact of from my friends .

do they have anyright to do this an if i left home can they leagley make me come home x

Answer 1

That doesn't sound right; all girls your age have boyfriends and friends, you need to go to family counseling and get help, your parents are way too strict.

Answer 2

I'm nineteen and my mom still tries to dictate my life. But I respect her decision because I know she is just trying to protect me. I think you need to talk to your mom and dad and try to explain to them that you need some space. You are about to be eighteen and legal so if they don't respect your decision then you can just move out!

Answer 3

just wait another years

parents can be wierd  

Answer 4

you need to talk to them. that's completely unfair and is probably not doing you any good making you a social outcast or whatever. and if you live in the US then yeah they're "in charge" of you until you're 18 but 16 if you're english

Answer 5

nooo  first off   i had a friend  who 's parents were strict  they  didnt even let her go to the convenience store then she   rebelled and ended up  more wild  then any one  who  was allowed to  do   stuff  because she  had  never done anything  she  took it to an  extream ... but  she  left and no  they couldnt make her  come back  when your 16  and  on you  can leave and  they cant make you  even though they are  your  gardians ... sooo  find out at school talk to a councellor  tell them  the situation  tell them  you want to know what you can do ... and   hope full y some advise can be given ........  

Answer 6

There are several possibilities. One is that they are scared for you. have you gotten into a lot of trouble lately? There is a cnahce they are acting out of fear for your future. There is also the possibility they are being terribly overprotective. Why won't they let you talk with your friends? Are they being abusive? They can not force you to come back home, and when you are 18, you can be totally on your own, but think if that is what you want.

Answer 7

Wow thats sucks im sorry for you. But ok for now stay in school so that way you get your own s-h-i-t!!!! and leave them and live your life, in the meantime try to explain to them you need a life and their responsible and your gonna be 18 soon and need to know about boys,the world, the good the bad! jeeze pparents like that is why so many kids go locooooo

Answer 8

At the age 17 you should be allowed to experience some independence with rules and regulations from your parents.  I suspect that you may be exaggerating a little. However, what ever the case if you have respected your parents rules and are a responsible person, now is the time to sit down with your parents and discuss this problem.  A mature conversation goes a long way in proving to them that you are responsible enough for a little independence.  You may want to start by suggesting a contract of rules and expectations from them here's a good article which may help you get started go to http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/a...

Answer 9

Its all apart of growing up you and your parents will have good days and bad.  my mom was like that she did'nt like my freinds and would try to keep me from them mostly because I hung out with pot heads and they did'nt like any of the boys I brought home! I gave my parents h**l!  I ran away once but I had to come back home I had no money no car no where to live except with freinds but my freinds had there parents to deal with so the running away thing dide't work out for me.  I regret giving my parents a hard time I think about it now and Im kind of ashamed of myself because they only wanted what was best for me and they deserved more than that from me now there old and trying to raise there grandkids my brothers kids. Things will change for you just give it time mean while be good and behave yourself! Don't do somthing today you will regret tomorrow.

Answer 10

Unless you have a history of doing something horribly bad in the past they have every right, but if your a girl who goes to school and like to be a teenager you are ok. Although you cant run away you can have another adult help you out with you parents. being over protective is never a good thing!

Answer 11

That is sooo not fair, they are too over protective and don't trust you. Don't run away until your 18, but for now try to earn their trust whining won't help a bit.

Answer 12

if there is a smidgen of truth to all this, start making plans to leave when you're 18.

Answer 13

yes they have the right to do this and yes they can legally make you come home if you ran away by sending the police. its unfair, i know. the only way it wouldnt be legal is if you got emancipated from your parents but no boy is worth that.