Im 18 and i want to move out...i need help

Question

i want to dorm for college and my parents are not letting me...they want me home by 10 every night i work like every day.. and go to school full time.... they don't want to let me do nothing. i can't go out with my friends clubbing because it is too late for my parents. its embaressing. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and his mother told me to move in because she doesn't want me to make the mistake of getting pregnant just too leave my house. i told my parents i want to leave and they just laugh and said no.i can't be there anymore...my dad will go crazy and try to flip on me if i ever leave what should i do? i just want to remember my college years having fun not being locked up in my house??what should i do??

Answer 1

You know one thing college students tend to forget is who is paying for that college????  If you are paying for your own tuition and can afford living expenses on top of that then by all means move out!  However, if your parents are footing even fifty percent of your education then you need to start respecting that fact!  College isn't for partying.  If that's all you want to do is party then you need to get out of college right away and move out of your parents house and suffer the consequences.  Your parents should however raise your curfew time as ten o clock is a little to early for college age.  Perhaps you need to sit down and chat with them and see about a more suitable curfew. I am sure they are just wondering how you could be studying if your partying all the time???? Please be respectful and make the decision based upon that respect.  Good luck in your studies and think of the party you could look forward to once your finished with college!

Answer 2

Sure right now you want to leave and be rid of ur parents and sure u want to have fun, but in the fututre  when YOUR stuck at home with kids and its YOUR kids that want to leave, I would like to see how YOU feel about that, ur so selfish and inconsiderate, have u ever stopped to think how your parents love you and have given up many things for you they fed you changed your nasty poopy diapers, sheltered you and loved you , the list goes on and on, how do you think it makes them feel, o but of course you dnt even careu just want to move out now that ur all grown up and feel no need for them -_-, ughhh and THEYRE prbably paying for ur college 2, and this is what they gte ughhh u dnt deserve it when all u want is to go "clubbing" u seriously are inconsiderate.

Answer 3

My advice to you is this!!  Since you are the BIG 18 ( like a freakin number makes or breaks you) and you wish to be an ADULT.....ACT LIKE IT!

Adults know how to problem solve and communicate!  Adults support themselves and can regulate when to have fun and when not too!!  Maybe you need to sit back and think of the fact that your parents have lived life, know what the h**l they are talking about and want the BEST for you. I think it is crazy that once a person turns 18 they think something is gonna change. It's a freakin number.....not a be all /change all!!!!  Good Lord!

And of course you don't want negative advice....because if someone tells you straight up and you aren't reading what you wish to read....it's all going to be negative!!!!  

Grow Up and act like the adult you wish you could be!!!