Im 18 and i will never be good friends with a girl!?!?

Question

Im not really sure how to be good friends with a girl. Even the ones that seem mature (act their age) or just like a down *** person turn out to be just the same as all the others. They start hating every other girl because she is prettier than her or be cause they just need to call some chick a s**t. I really don't understand it! Why is it that when a girl sees someone better that her she freaks out? I lost my last friend that was a girl because she said some chick was a s**t and all i said was well i dont really know her so i cant say that. UGH. Then she started dating my best friend (Aiden) and now shes pissed that i dont get mad when she says straight up lies? I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY WOMEN JUST CANT GET A LONG AND STOP THE MADNESS d**n IT!?!?! Is their any women out their who are comfortable in their own skin so they dont need to bring others down??? i mean i have no problem not hanging out with girls just every now and then i would like to have a female to talk to..... but i guess that can never happen! Im heading in to college this year and hopping there are some chicks there i have much in common with and we can actually be friends. But 1/2 of me thinks it will just get worse.... Is there anyone who feels the same way (about any part)?

Answer 1

Hey there ~ I am a 35yr old woman & I hate to say it, but some women stay like this their whole lives :( I am a nurse and most of my coworkers spend their entire shift talking $h!t about everyone else. They never talk about their hobbies, current events, etc. Just talk badly about everyone else. Man, is it draining.

On the bright side though, as you get into college you will meet more mature girls, hopefully some of whom you can be friends with. Not all girls are stuck in that horrible, low-confidence high-school catty phase forever .... (but be forewarned, some most definitely are)

Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

yes, the female race has problems. if everyone could learn to live in harmony and not steal boyfriends and cheat and lie and gossip and backstab, it'd be good.

Answer 3

dude i just graduated high school 3 months ago and i feel exactly the same way you do(i mean exactly!). my best friend since 1st grade decided she didnt want to be friends anymore and just stopped talking to me, and the rest of the girls in our group left to be her friend because she's bitchy and they dont wanna be on her bad side.  

im most certain you will find girls like you and me in college. i took a class at our community college and i never felt so comfortable in school before, no one gave a ****, just look forward to it and keep an open mind.

Answer 4

im not a girl, but ive heard of girls like and have been friends with them. they r plent of girls like u and ull meet them in college. dont worry, ur not gonna b a loner. it is unfortunate that some girls r like that.