Im 18 and still a virgin and still havent had my first girlfriend yet either?

Question

i know its pathetic so please no stupid answers im not in the mood im also straight too so dont ask if im g*y ether anyways its weird though because im a nice easy goin cool laid back kinda guy i just got to college and im hopin that going here it will finally happen. I have a skin condition on my forehead u can clearly see it in this pic this causes me to have self esteem issues from time to time i suffered from this through most of high school.

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Answer 1

Hey, im in that same position now too. I've havent really had a real girlfriend yet either, and im an 18 year old virgin. I dunno, a lot of ppl say its ok tho. but yeah i feel the same way, think im a cool person. in high school i hung out wit all the "popular kids", and sat wit the "in" crowd. but yeah, it might really be self esteem issues too, bcuz i know i have hardly any self esteem. haha. but yeah i just got into college also, start next month, hope some things might change 4 both of us. haha. but yeah, wat college u going to?

Answer 2

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18... I was.  I am now 31 years old and have two kids so I'm obviously not a virgin anymore.  Hehe.  =)  I couldn't see your picture, but if you have a skin condition, I suggest visiting a dermatologist.  If it is acne, try an OTC remedy like "Acne Free" or "Proactiv" ... they have helped me.  Believe it or not, your low self esteem will be what drives people away.  I suffered this for many years.  When I got into my late 20's, I finally got over it and felt good about who I am.  I have noticed since gaining self confidence, I have also gained many friends and I get hit on a lot more than I did when I was younger.  So, go see a dermatologist and work on the esteem issues.  I am sure the right girl will come along before you know it.

Answer 3

when  it comes down tot he point the best thing you can do is be confident and out going dont wait for a girl  to come up and talk to  you go after them and  be kinda agressive     it'd cool to be the nice guy but i hate to tell ya some girls like the bad boy so to say  they liked being chased as they play hard to get  so dont give up and  get out there enjoy life while it is still fun :P