Im 4'10 & guy that I want to marry is 6'2. Would we look strange?

Question

My parents will not accept him because of our height difference they think we will look weird and people would make fun of us. are they right? Personally I dont mind.

Answer 1

If you love him it shouldn't matter.  Your parents need to be more concerned over whether he will make you happy.  

Answer 2

No it wouldn't look strange..it would rweally look cute..sure people are gonna make harmless jokes about it..but it's no big deal..don't let your parents affect your decision especially if the only reason they don't want you together is height difference

Answer 3

my friend was 6'6" and married to a woman who was 5'2". if it's love, that's all that matters, not height!  

Answer 4

It doesn't matter, you shouldn't be bothered by this. If you love him, that's what that matters, not your height difference. Good luck!

Answer 5

If you love him and he loves you, why are you so worried about what other people think? It isn't about them, this is your life not theirs.  As for your parents, i'm not sure why they are making such a fuss, If your happy with your man, that's what is the most important thing, so they should be happy for you, after all I bet they don't comment when it's vice-versa and they see Tom Cruise on TV with Katie Holmes who towers above him.

Have a great future together x

Answer 6

ITS DOESNT Matter!... does him being tall effect the way u love him!

skrew what anyone else thinks

Answer 7

Well i think it looks pretty cute and the guy is meant to be taller than the girl, doesn't matter by how much. If you and him don't mind than theres nothing to worry about. You can always wear really high heels when your meeting up with alot of people or wherever really.

Answer 8

Not at all. People are like that all the time. If I remember right, my 4th grade teacher was the same height, and her husband was 6'5". No one laughed at them. & if people do, learn to laugh at yourselves. It will all work out.

:D

Answer 9

Sure it may look funny but if you love each other, who cares what other peole think! :)

Answer 10

I am 4'11 and my husband is 6'0. True, we may not look like the perfect hollywood picture perfect couple, but hey, this is the real world! Lots of couples are different heights (among other things - race, color, weight, age, etc).

I cannot believe your parents would disapprove because of a height difference. That is crazy. That means (sadly) they are NOT interested in your happiness, but instead how they'll look to others.

If you are in love with this guy, and he is on love with you the GO for it. Don't let height be a factor.  

Answer 11

there so wrong i know short people who date tall people and people dont really mind them

Answer 12

Yes.  You should get somone that's equally yolked.  

Answer 13

Well...I don't want to be offensive or anything, but people will raise their eye brows upon seeing you two together (in the street,shopping mall,etc).

However, if you love him, go for it!

Answer 14

it's a bit strange, but if you really like each other, you shouldn't be asking what other people think.  do whatever you want!

Answer 15

Your parents don't accept him because of the height difference?  That's a really dumb reason not to like someone.  My mom is 4'10 and my dad is 6'.  Yes, they get some looks and an occasional comment but nothing mean spirited and they've always made a joke out if themselves.  Anyone who will honestly disapprove of a relationship based on how tall you are is shallow and judgmental.

Answer 16

You know, my boyfriend is reaaaaaaaaaaally tall and I'm super short lol and I was kinda worried at first that it would look weird.. but then I realized that it really is about what you make out of the relationship. If when you two are walking down the street look all happy then everybody's just going to be jealous of what you two have :P But just that.. so don't even worry bout it! If you found the guy of your dreams just feel lucky ;)  

Answer 17

if you don't care and you love each other, your parents should just get used to the idea. tell them that you are the one that wants to be happy and if you just keep holding off for  "perfect" match for you, then you will never be happy.  

Answer 18

Meh, shouldn't matter.  You have bigger things to worry about(marriage!).  I suggest counceling.

Answer 19

It doesn't matter what height you two are, you're in love and you want to get married. I personally don't think It's a big deal.

Answer 20

all that matters is if he makes u happy.

and if he loves u.

im 4'11'

so dnt feel left out.

lol

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