Im 81 and want action...?

Question

Me and my husband of 36 great years always sit back and do nothing. Hes always watching the news and im always knitting. We never kiss or even hug. I want my hot hubby back. Im not kidding, my grandkid Eliza always gets mad because of this. My best friend Bernice is always kissing her husband. I know im old, but not one hug?? Please dont report me, im just sad and my days are almost over. I want to be remembered. Thank you kindly. If you kn ow Ernie, don't tell him please.

Answer 1

my poppa always told me before he died that he may be old but he's not dead.  my grams was the same way.  even though your generation tends to be more old fashioned and lets the man make the first move, but come on honey, in this day and age, men are too slow to take subtle hints, no offense guys, but most of ya are!  walk up to Ernie and remind him why you've been together for those 36 wonderful  years.  obviously the fire was there since you have grandkids, it's time to throw some wood back on the fire and spark it up some more.  go for it girl, show your man you still those same types of feelings for him even today.

Answer 2

I think you should hug and kiss him and tell him that  you both are up in years but you still want to be close. you  still need  affection and closeness.

Answer 3

ain't nothing wrong with being a granny that still wanna get your freak on. maybe you ought to go to a site called vivid video.com and order a few of them "GRANDMA's WANNA ****" TOO videos and play them around him, maybe this will give him the notion that you still wanna get your groove on and you are HOT for him!!

Answer 4

Ha haa !  A double dose of Viagra should do it for him granny . But ask his doctor first to see if his old heart can take it .

Answer 5

How cute. How about you make the first move and hug him. I'm sure he'll love it.

Answer 6

Initiate. 36 great years! You deserve the affection... He too. You're never too old to have 'action'. Bless you both.

Answer 7

Okay well granny dont get ur gobble in a bunch... i no how to solve this.. ok what u do is u walk in the room n see if his head is bobbin n his feet are tappin if they are that measn hes redy to be fistey :) ahha everyone wants a head bobbin feet tappin hubby.. i no i doo! it could be my weddin music . it could be called .. when the feet are about to tap tap tap..  well .. thats what i would doo.. :)  

Answer 8

lol have many older family members around me in their 80's and they don't talk like you do not alone know what "hot" means. I am calling your bluff granny.

Answer 9

You go girl!! Tell ernie you 2 have been married a long time and you remember the nights you used to spend together. Start talking about them, that usually works on my husband. Maybe he will start to remember too, and miss it too!

Answer 10

Just sit on your husbands lap and start hugging and kissing him.

Your never to old to want,need and give affection.

Answer 11

Just sit your husband down and start showing him pictures of the both of you when you were younger. Then start talking about the "good old days" and then rub his leg. If he doesn't get the hint kiss him and whisper to him that you would like to relive some of those memories. Good Luck and Hope you get some..

Answer 12

aw Gerdy, i always see my grandparents hugging and stuff. i wouldnt listen to the answers that talk about...you know. just tell him you love him, maybe watch the news with him? spend time with him. give him a hug. i would listen to the answers that talk about going through pictures. that would be cool :)

good luck!

Answer 13

Gerdie, you are entitled to physical affection until in the cold, dark earth, and you should let Hubby know that. My parents and In-laws are all in their late 70's and 80's and they let me know that they still do it. Go for it!

There's nothing wrong with older people wanting some lovin' hope I still get it when I get there too.

Answer 14

Go on strike! Refuse to do anything for Ernest until your demands are met!

Answer 15

Lmao I think I love you.

Answer 16

Find a picture of you all when you first started going out and have it framed really nicely, then wrap it up all pretty and give him an unexpected gift. Seeing the picture might stir up some lovey feelings and then you and be kissing all evening.

Answer 17

Aw, I just want to give you a hug! I'm only 26, but my boyfriend isn't into hugging and kissing all the time. He has never been, but I just go ahead and hug and kiss him anyways! Tell him you want a hug, how can he say no! When I need an extra snuggle I go find my dog, she is always up for some kisses! Hope you get some lovin ;)