Im A Teenager that dosent talk.

Question

I dont know I'm an extreme loner or what but i dont ever talk to people but im not one of those emo kids where its not cool to talk or a nerdy kid im decently looking and feel welcomed in a way but rarely talk.

what could be up with this?

ive heard some people say autism

Answer 1

maybe you just like keeping to your self. idk but!!! i did watch MADTV once and this girl like never talked in public but lead this life online where she felt free to do anything! maybe thats what you are or i mean who

Answer 2

i know a girl like that.

she RARELY talks and when she does its realllly quiet and kindof soft and not a deep voice.

shes really pretty too. she wears nice clothes and earrings and stuff.. i just dont know why...

your not the only one out there is what im trying to say.. i dont know whats wrong though...

Answer 3

extreme social anxiety perhaps. i would see a psychiatrist if i were you. it's nothing to be ashamed of. but this problem needs attention.

Answer 4

I've been the same way for as far as I can remember and I'm 20 now. I talk to people but the conversation doesn't last long. The only people I can really talk to normally for a while are ones that I've gotten to know for a while. It's not that I'm shy, I just don't know what to say without knowing the person very well :)

Answer 5

well since you say you feel welcomed...i wouldn't go so far as a social anxiety - maybe you just need to practice 'free thought' - maybe you just don't have - anything to say?  so you've got to involve yourself more...

Answer 6

Schizoid personality probably. It could be mild autism though.

Answer 7

its called shyness

Answer 8

well just break out and talk

Answer 9

It's just your personality. Not everyone feels like they have to be talking to be accepted.

Answer 10

We live in a world where it's almost getting to the point that each one of us need to be just like who we are standing next to.

Nothing is wrong with you.  Furry Guy gave you a diagnosis, that is so terrible he should shave himself bald.'

You already stated, you feel o.k.  If you feel o.k, to h**l with other people, celebrate your uniqueness.

Answer 11

probably it's in ur genes

Answer 12

You could be shy or feel that if you say something wrong it might mess things up. Or you could think that others think your opinion doesn't matter.

Hope this helps :]  

Answer 13

I'm the same way. I really don't have any friends and I get really lonely sometimes. I always feel neglected like nobody cares, at home, school, wherever. I don't usually talk unless I basically have to. I'm not emo or any of that stuff either, I guess I'm just really really shy.  It's definitely not autism, autism is a disorder that you get from birth, it doesn't have to do with your shyness. Someone who is autistic, is basically a hanidcapped person. you're not autistic, you're just very shy and i feel your pain. i'm always lonely and don't know what to do. Hope everything goes well.

Answer 14

first off...i think if u can tell u have autism...then it probrably isn't

Answer 15

i know whatyou mean

im quiet and i have aquaintences...u know like people i talk to in school but thats where it ends...school

im quiet, sorta shy but im pretty nice to everyone..every thinks of me as "little kid" because i never say much and sometimes i like being alone

other times i wish i was more social = ]

Answer 16

maybe your just not a social person.

its possible, but maybe you should go to your doctors for a testing.

your not weird or anything.

Answer 17

There's nothing wrong with you. To me your observent. Meaning you have a special gift of listening and observe others. It's not that you don't talk, your just an easy listener. You are very laid back to me. From experience I've dated someone that was like that and he was a great person:)

Answer 18

aspurgers * i definetely did not spell that right.

but try looking it up// its a kind of autism where you are socially a little different and don't talk a lot

  

Answer 19

i am the exact same way, i just cant spit things out even though i want to! it sucks, its probably social anxiety! or your just extremely shy, talk to a shrink about it

Answer 20

maybe you're a thinker.  People who don't talk much tend to think alot.  Doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you.  Maybe it just means that you would rather keep quiet and keep to yourself instead of filling up silence with verbal garbage.

Answer 21

i have the same problem..

i dont like talking to people and i have very few friends

i think its just that i like being alone  

Answer 22

It's normal, may even be related to something in your past which keeps you disinterested in talking a lot. Just be glad you're not going to be part of the drama.

Answer 23

ur probably just shy. i dont talk that much either except to my really close friends.