Im THINKING OF ADOPTING BUT I HATE KIDS?

Question

Im THINKING OF ADOPTING BUT I HATE KIDS?

Answer 1

you must be a heartless person!

Answer 2

Get a dog.

Answer 3

not cute..not funny.

Answer 4

Why do it then.  The tax right off?

Answer 5

Same here you adopt kids becuase your helping them but dont worry your not a bad person :)

Answer 6

Doesn't this question violate some YA rule?  Can't this question be reported????  Whoever this person is keeps asking really stupid questions that don't even make any sense.  What's the purpose?

Answer 7

Well why on earth would you even think about adoption if you don't like kids children need a loving home where they are wanted and loved  get a dog instead Dumd *** :(

Answer 8

It's easy to say that you hate kids if they're not your own.

Answer 9

then don't adopt.

Honestly, some parents today do NOT deserve to have kids, adoption or otherwise.

Answer 10

WHY WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT ADOPTING IF YOU DONT LIKE KIDS.

Answer 11

Then you need to have your head examined...

Answer 12

If you hate kids then your just wrong in sooooo many ways. There is a difference in being maternal to just hating children. Advice to you.......dont adopt.

Answer 13

If you really do hate kids the last thing you should be thinking of is adopting a child.The person you adopt would need more than you would be willing to give and,I am sure,it wouldn't take long for the resentment to be picked up on.You need to be really sure that your feelings would be permanently changed toward children before taking this step.do yourself and any children you might adopt in the future a big favour and involve yourself in the lives of children you know to make sure you can change your attitude or if you ever do adopt you are only going to put yourself and any children who you adopt into a type of life you all will regret

Answer 14

then what's the point?

Answer 15

Maybe adopt a dog then?

I would go for an aggressive one that would bite you all the time.  So maybe a chihuahua?

Answer 16

well, why in the do you wanna adopt kids if you hate them, the best thing you should is keep the h**l away from mine and use protection at all times because believe me if you have your own then you won't have an option if you hate them then you just will have to love them... But If you saying it like you want to just try something different and new but just don't know if it's right for you or that you will be the best one for it then i feel ya!

Answer 17

I bet they feel the same towards you.

Answer 18

PLEASE don't adopt unless your 110% sure that you can love and care for a child.

I grew up with a mother who didn't like kids and I'm still trying to recover. I've been in therapy and mental rehabilitation. It's something very tramatizing for a child that I hope no one EVER has to go through!

Answer 19

ok darling i'm all yours....all 44 years of me, oh but feeding me is costly,only like seafood...

Answer 20

If you really hate kids then I don't think for one minute you should adopt one. Why on earth would you want to do that, and make both your and their life a misery?

Do you really hate kids or are you just scared, ie. have you spent any time getting to know friends or relatives kids and understanding them? If this question was written in more detail we may be able to advise but it does seem a little odd...

Answer 21

so get a snake...perfect match

Answer 22

then you should get all the kids you can.

Answer 23

Or a donkey.

I think this is just a joke though.  Don't you have something better to do?  Although I'm just buying in my responding, that's what you wanted.

Answer 24

hm

Answer 25

I have a rattlesnake here for a pet.  You could adopt him.

Answer 26

err the whole point in adopting is to take care of children... i dont think i would let u adopt my child if u hate them, so why would u want to if u hate kids, ur question doesnt make any sense or is this someone just puttin in daft questions cause of boredom?

Answer 27

Well, you probably shouldn't adopt any then.

Answer 28

Why would you want to adopt when you hate kids? Is it for tax deduction or is it illegal purposes?

  There are couples out there who can't have children and use adoption as a way to have a family and they want to be parents.

I hope that adoption agencies see right through you and won't grant you an adoption. You b*****d.

Answer 29

Don't feed the trolls.

Answer 30

why do you want to adopt if you hate kids. That could be  a bad situation. Or do you really like them but have a fear of something about them? I'd definitely consider how you feel about kids before you adopt. Adoption is forever and if you don"t like kids you can't return them. having kids is very stressful, and if you don't like them it can make parenting seem like a daunting task and can lead to you getting very mad and frustrated with the child.

Answer 31

What are your reasons for wanting to adopt? If you dislike children and you still want to adopt I would suggest that you adopt an older child. Most older children never get adopted and it could really make a difference in their lives. You would also get to skip out on the diapering and late night feedings. Hope you find the answer you are looking for.