Im a 13 year old boy and im being bullied?

Question

ok so for 1-2 years this kid named nick has been bullying me, doing things like pushing me hitting me in the back, throwing food, molch, dirt, etc.... he also calls me names and taunts me alot. Im getting really tired of it, hes bigger than me one time i got so mad i threw him into a desk causing him to back off for a week, but now its starting to get SUPERRR bad hes doing everything in his power to make me feel down. I dont want to tell any1 because he called me a p***y and threw me into a wall when i told one of my friends. I dont want to tell my parents because they will take it to seriously, i feel like punching him in the face but i know i would get in even more trouble, i dont know what to do any ideas?

Answer 1

Usually the bully is only covering up because inside he really has no self esteem. You could try to avoid him or if you can not do that you need to tell your parents. Confronting him and telling him that if he has a problem with you then you guys can discuss it in the counselors office. Because the school will not tolerate violence in their school or on the premises. You need to tell your parents so they can help you talk to someone at the school.

Answer 2

i would talk with either the principal or your counselor at school if you don't want to tell your parents, but also let the couselor know you don't want your parents to know. you'll get in trouble in school for fighting so that's why you should try to get this resolved with an adult.  you can go off on him, just don't use any bad language. when he starts picking on you or calling you names, don't act like you're scared or intimidated by him and try being nice to him, it might take some time but usually if you're nice to bullies, they sometimes end up being your best friends, that happened to me. be nice to him when your like in gym class or science class ask if he wants to work with you.

Answer 3

join a martial arts class to learn coping and how to handle things. taek won doe is awesome. ASk your parents to join the class too.

talk to the principle of the school. you do need to tell some adult and get it on record .

If you can't avoid the kid then do your best to just remember that he is probably bullied or soemthing to have such a huge chipon his shoulder.

Answer 4

sorry but i honestly would beat his butt but you are being mature and keeping cool.if you guys get into it again you defend yourself b/c now tha is just gonna show him that you are weak and that will just encourage him to keep going.arguements argue back in front of a teacher so then you are not really telling but you are arguing and they will most likely send you to the office.

Answer 5

I am no expert on this matter. I have taken my 8 year old daughter to Girlsempowered.com classes. They also do classes for boys. You might be able to pick up good advice.

Kids can be very mean.  I would tell your parents. Explain to them all of your concerns.

Answer 6

kids are so stupid seriously. it sounds like nick is so lame that all he can think of is to pick on some kid bc he doesnt have anything better to do.

i would tell your parents.. in the end its worth it.

or just punch him if he messes with you more because it is considered self defence.

Answer 7

Has this kid ever got in trouble at school?

Why should YOU get in trouble for defending yourself?

It is HIM that is WRONG !!

Go ahead and beat the c**p out of him and get in trouble. What's the worst that can happen?

Be suspended from school?

So what? At least you'll get him off your back.

Answer 8

U SHOULD BEAT THAT *****'S ***. iF U 13 THEN U SHOULD BE ABLE 2 DEFEND YOURSELF!! THAT HO JUSTT MAD CUZ HE AINT LIKE U. JUST TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO WAS BULLIED WHEN SHE WUZ 11. MAKE HIM FEEL SORRY OR JUST TELL A TEACHER OR COUNSELOR. IF HE EVER BULLIES U AGAIN, PERSONNALY EMAIL ME [e-mail]. Then all the cuss words wlii show. Make him remember that asswhipping!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

okay turn around when he is really close and in front of you and the moment u turn act like you will run but kick him while he is behind you in the stomach the "slip" say I tried to run but I slipped and hit him. "does not work then trick him into hitting you in front of a school attendent so he gets suspended or better expelled.

Or goin a martial arts class for self defense/tell parents. he usually does this toget rid of his inner pain so try to talk to him be nice (worked for me) he will be happy with someone to talk to about his problems.