Im a 14 year old male i want to have normal relations with a girl?

Question

this is hard to ask but...here it goes........ im a 14 year old who hasnt gone through puberty yet.. but i want to starting have sexual relations with my girlfriend not s*x or anything...like making out and that thing...im worried that shell be upset when she finds out im feeling her up and i havent even gone through puberty yet...im worried that ppl will make fun of me if they find out...ugh what should i do??? when should i expect puberty?

Answer 1

Hey jay (THAT RHYMES! Not like those freaks that scam you into a referral so they can get stuff) just relax. If your voice isnt cracked yet and you want to ask a girl out, chances are...she wont go out w/ you. But if your voice has gotten a bit deeper, mayb u should just have a relationship where the only sexual thing is kissing and hugging. Wait till you're like 18 before u start the adult stuff

Answer 2

I'm 14 and I'm just going through puberty as well. I'd say if the girl doesn't like you because you ahven't completely gone through it, then she isn't the right one. She should date you because she likes YOU. You will hit puberty soon man. I was asking myself the same thing a while ago.  

Answer 3

Don't push yourself.  When you are really ready, you will know.  If she is under 18, it is statutory rape and (harshly) punishable by law.

Answer 4

Give it a break and wait.  You'll be much better off waiting until you are 18 or 19 to start having s*x with the ladies.

Believe me, you do NOT want to be a father at your age.  Don't go there.

Just enjoy being a normal teenager.  No one is going to give you a prize for losing your virginity now.