Im a 14 yr old girl and i wanna be a guy but i recently told someone that i trusted that.....?

Question

she said maybe i should see a specialist but i was wondering what other peoples experiences are. At the moment most people think im bi because of my tendency to date people of the same s*x as me

Also what is it called when your a girl that wants to be a guy?

Answer 1

I would stick to being a chick.  Its ab-normal to want to be different. And, manly-chicks kinda freak out guys. Unless your really really hott! Then its ok to be l***o.(]-;

Answer 2

a guy born a female is a transgender. or are u just sick of having ur period? lol. but u may want to find a specialist to talk to on it and once u've really put thought into it there's stuff u can do to become a dude, but it's far from easy.

best of luck to ya.

Answer 3

s*x change

and btw, whats your problem that you "want" to be a guy?

change your s*x either way, its not gonna be perfect and you're gonna looked f****** up (in/out of bed)

you're better off staying looking like a girl than looking like a s*****e.

Answer 4

I felt that way once. I cut my hair short and dressed like a guy becuase I wasn't a very attractive girl.



Are 100% sure you want to be a guy ?  You might want to give serious thought.

Answer 5

If your a girl that wants to be a guy then you would be considered transgender.  

Answer 6

You should seek out a professional if you're serious about this... they will be able to help you sort out whether it's a sexuality issue, a gender identity issue or both. It's a HUGE undertaking if you decide you need to change genders to feel "normal"... which is why you want to take all of the steps one by one. It's possible that you're just a "butch" ( Tomboy ) L*****n... which means you don't have to do anything... surgically... but go get yourself into a psychiatrists office... they'll definitely be able to help you sort it all out...

Answer 7

I know how you feel. I felt like I was stuck in someone else's body. You want to be known as a guy. I can understand that. I'm not very sure, but I think you have Gender Identity Disorder. You feel like you are something different in the inside than your outside.

Don't listen to any negative comments. There are online support groups and I suggest you talk to someone who specializes in the transgender category. Keep your chin up and think about what you want before you consider doing any changes.

Laters, and good luck with life!

Answer 8

Isn't called transgender?

I'm not sure.

Maybe you could see a specialist and talk things out..

it'll be much easier that way. :]

Answer 9

FtM transsexual, a therapist could diagnose you and help you seek gender reassignment treatment if that's something you want to do.

Answer 10

When a person wants to assume the gender identity of the opposite birth assigned gender is called transgender--this is someone who has not had s*x reassignment surgery; however, there is so many different variables that it's hard to put an absolute label on someone.  It's more important for you to find a professional to talk about it with and help you identify yourself and your needs.  

I suggest reading about the subject and finding out as much as possible.  Let's face it, knowing oneself is the most important task in one's life.

Answer 11

uhh.. transexual..... lol..

Answer 12

I looked into this at a couple of points in my life, but three big points kept coming back at me against the female-to-male procedure transgenderfication.

1.  Cost - it's d**n expensive, and no insurance covers it.  You can almost buy a home (except on the coasts) for the cost of becoming a guy.  Female-to-male is about triple the price of male-to-female.

2.  Social aspects - I'm 5'1" as a female and have a hard time to get some people to take me serious due to being short.  I've seen how a 5'1" male is treated; he treated as a freak, as a child, as being every girls' friends "but I couldn't marry a man shorter than me".  If you're above average women's height, you won't have near the problems in this area.

3.  Phalloplasty - the construction of the p***s is still a bit of trial-and-error.  If constructing a male p***s was simple, sports-car dealerships would be out of business; all the insecure middle-aged guys would be getting p***s-augmentations instead of red Corvettes.  I haven't seen a constructed p***s, but my understanding is that they aren't close to the original in function or appearance.

Maybe by the time you're older the medical community will have more of the problems eliminated.  I've already lived 35 years as female; even if the process was perfect and free tomorrow, I doubt I'd go thru with it.

Answer 13

I always used to be a tomboy when i was younger but your taking it to a different extreme if you feel that way. You were born a girl right so that's the way your meant to be and if your bi or L*****n don't be ashamed of it its the way you are and who you are,and being a guy would make you a completely different person it would be like being re-born are you sure you wan't to take that step.I presume when your 18 or older because if you do I think you should speak to a counsellor or someone that could understand why you feel the need to be the opposite s*x because it's not normal of a 14yr old (which I will be next month) who should be enjoying their teenage years.

Answer 14

Do you have a very strong feeling to want to be a guy? I always wished that I am a guy, though it's not so strong that I want to go for a s*x change. I tend to wear guy clothing though. So you might want to think about that. If you want to have a s*x change, find a specialist about it.

And the term is transsexual/transgender. More specific could be FtM (female to male) transgender.

Answer 15

FTM=female to male transgender