Im a 16 year old male and i dont know if g*y is my way?

Question

ok, so im a 16 year old male living in peoria arizona. last year i had come back in touch with an old friend. after we were talking for a while he told me he was g*y and we hooked up, like completely all the way. we lost touch after that, but browsing myspace tonight i found him again. i dont know if i should take a chance with him again or not. i liked him before, but im scared and dont know if g*y is the way for me. any suggestions?

Answer 1

Eh, now is the age for experimentation. Just remember the 3 C's: condoms, condoms, condoms!

Try and experiment both ways, though. It may just be that you were far more comfortable/relaxed with a male friend than you have been around females (intimidation/fear/anxiety/nervousness can all turn off the erection switch and make you feel more.. grossed/weirded out than turned on).

You're not fully sexually mature yet, let alone psychologically/emotionally.. you don't need to make any decisions yet.

Answer 2

Two things to consider:

Did you hook up with him only because you were horny and couldn't/didn't do it with a girl, or did you hook up with him because your emotions connected with him.

If it's the second, that your emotions of bonding are involved and not just doing it for sexual release, then I'd say you lean toward being g*y.

If your emotions aren't involved and it was just for s*x and only for s*x, then I'd say there isn't enough evidence yet. Try with some other guys.

From what I read, it matters where your emotions are going. Could you fall in love with this guy? If so, this points to being g*y.

Good luck.

Answer 3

If you liked it, go for it. Maybe you're hesitant because bein g*y isn't really accepted too much in our society, or maybe you like both sexes.... Either way, I'd say go for it if you feel like you want to.

Answer 4

seems like it already is ..you can't help who you are attracted to

Answer 5

Tell him you already have a man........That line works for me in Hollywood. It stumps them every time because their not expecting you to say that.

Answer 6

Sounds like g*y is your way.  Accept it. Embrace it. be happy

Answer 7

Try straight aswell

Answer 8

g*y may be your way, but it may not.  If you're curious, try it again but with someone else.  You may find it is your bag.  You may find that you were just experimenting, it was a phase, you're over it.  

Answer 9

The only way to find out is to just go for it, so just try it if your not into it anymore then you know it's not for you, but until then you will never know... You might be bisexual, nothing wrong with that either just follow your heart hun. :)

-Best of luck to you xD

Answer 10

Well, if you're g*y, then you're g*y.

Doesn't mean you have to be attracted to the only guy you've hooked up with.

If you like him, then go for it!

but if you're going for him just to label yourself, then maybe you should wait to figure out which way to go.

You're still young, there's no rush. You'll figure it out sooner or later.

Answer 11

Could mean you're bisexual? My suggestion: just try and enjoy all of it!

Edit: why do people act as if you're either straight or g*y, no middle way (bisexuality)? ;)

Answer 12

I think you should do what u feel is best. The only person that knows you is you bud. Do what in your heart u feel is right and good luck with it.

Answer 13

Ok you need to take this advice try everything 2 times and if you don't like the way it is going do something else ok

Answer 14

The only way to know is to try it!

Answer 15

It's okay to be nervous or anxious when thinking about s*x, relationships, and friendship. Being unsure about your sexuality is one of the most common and natural things about being a teenager. I'm 18 and I still can't say for 100% certain that I'm g*y.

You don't have to label youself as g*y, straight, or bisexual. You are attracted to whatever attracts you, don't play into society telling you what to do. If you still like him and if it would make you happy to be in contact with him, in whatever sense, then do it. For the sake of everyone who's alone tonight, do it.  

Answer 16

Well I think that you should decide if you are g*y first. You are young and have plenty of time to think about it. It has to be your decision.

Answer 17

Sounds to me like you are g*y you just haven't accepted it yet. If you have feelings for this guy then you shouldn't stop yourself. g*y People are always fixated on making themselves look, act and seem straight until they are ready to come out of the closet. Don't worry about what other people think. Be yourself. If your elders, friends, and peers don't accept the g*y way of life, then you don't have to tell them. Being g*y is ok. Fck what everyone else thinks.  

Answer 18

take a pic of jessica alba and see what happens. If there's a response, then go ahead and meet thim u're fine

Answer 19

What I always do is flip a coin. Heads you take a chance, Tails you don't...If the result turns up as Tails, and you're not satisfied and feel like you should flip again, then you'll have your answer won't you?  You need to make your own luck.  

And if not, just try to talk to him again first, if sparks are there for you again, then maybe it's meant to be.  

Answer 20

Hun, I say go for it. if you aren't g*y I'm sure you'll figure it out sooner or later =]

Good luck!

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Answer 21

Sweetheart, you are so g*y.

But don't be scared, there is nothing to be afraid or ashamed about. Talk to someone you trust about it, someone that won't judge you. Talk to me if you want! I have loads of g*y friends.