Im a 16 yrold christian male i have a problem with temptation i am nt virgin n have problem with resisting s*x

Question

ok im 16 and really into honoring god and my religion... however.. i struggle with temptation, im not a virgin and have s*x occasionally.. its really hard not to when in relationship.. i feel like im kind of addicted...well not really i just enjoy it.. i really would appreciate help.. plz dont suggest masturbation b/c its lust and i feel just as wrong when pleasing myself and thinkin about s*x as doing it.. so HELPPPPPP

Answer 1

How bout try to think of that ole' acronym:

WWJD

Also, you should talk to your gf and ask her to respect your wishes!

Oh and pray about it...

Answer 2

When you start to think about having s*x again, just remind yourself that it's wrong before you are married, and focus your mind on something COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!  This might help you restrain yourself from having premarital s*x again.  As you probably know it says in the bible that it is a sin to lose your virginity before marriage.  Unfortunately it is too late for you to get a purity ring since you are no longer pure.  Try not to think of s*x or masturbation, as it will lead to more sin.

Answer 3

story of my life,

yay jesus.

Answer 4

talk to your youth pastor and don't put yourself in any situation where you might be tempted. group dates are good!

Answer 5

i will be 16 next month and i have been dating the same guy for almost a year now and it is really hard trying to keep my virginity. i know how you feel. when ever i feel the need to have s*x i just start to think about something else like my favorite foods or a ride at an amusement park

Answer 6

I remember reading somehwere that lust is the thought or desire to m********e and/or have s*x, not the act of masturbating and/or having s*x. I'm not saying to go around humping your girlfriend at every chance you get, but it's better to release those sorts of thoughts, as opposed to holding them in.

Answer 7

Well, you at a teenager, S**t you are a person. You have urges. These urges are natural and there is nothing wrong with them. But then again if you think you have a problem it would be a good idea for you to just drop it. I mean its will power. Having s*x occasionally is ok. When you are having s*x with 5 different people in the same week or something like that then you are addicted but occasionaly having s*x with the person whom you share a relationship with is fine. Dont let s*x define you and who you are