Im a bit confused about my sexuality.Can you help?

Question

Ok so I'm 16 turning 17 this year,and I'm kind of confused on weather I'm straight or a L*****n.i mean I've been attracted to girls since i was like in the 4th grade because that was my first experience of doing anything with the same s*x.(kissing) and I've experience kissing girls from the 4th grade-6th. It was about 2 girls.When i was around 6 or 7 my best friend at the time we use to kiss but that was around the time that my babysitters daughter would touch and stuff. Molestion basically.I've always been attracted to guys as well i mean its natural for me. My friends thought i was bi in 2006. To a few i will deny and to some i will agree. So 2006-2007 I've came out i was bi....i had only one girlfriend at that time and it wasn't serious nor did it last long. I've talked to plenty of Lesbians during 2007and found myself falling really hard for this one girl i was talking to...she liked me alot as well but she was caught up in her ex-girlfriend who she has been with for 2 years. we don't speak now but since then I've haven't really been interested in guys but just this one guy. But i like girls more ...i think. I'm just not really interested in guys lately i no long find them as attractive as i did before.My best friend asks me if i can really see myself being with a woman in the further and have a family. and my answer is i don't know actually. depends on if I'm really in love i don't see why couldn't i be with a woman and raise a family. but i don't really like predicting on the future.

So any help on my sexuality?

Answer 1

That question took a lot of courage to ask. Maybe your true desires lie in your subconscious. Record your dreams and see if there are any patterns or tendencies. You are still too young for your sexual orientation to be etched in stone, anyway. Stay honest and above all trust yourself.

Answer 2

i just wanted to say thanks because I'm really confused about if i like girls or guys and you have way more courage to ask it and i really admire that! THANKS!

Answer 3

Nobody can tell you who you are - only you know your sexuality, even if it's not so clear to you right now.

Everyone gets confused. There are few people who know completely right away "I'm g*y" or "I'm L*****n". Even though I was SURE I liked women, I still kept saying "I'm bisexual" until I was eighteen...even though I knew I was completely a L*****n for sure at about fourteen, I think.

It sounds like you're bi who just prefers women more. You say you're sixteen, so you're still reasonably young to discover "who" you are. You might end up totally liking men and realising this was just one big phase. Or you might find a great woman you fall in love with and have that family with etc.

At the end of the day, like you said you don't like predicting the future, and you don't have to predict the future because who knows what will happen? Ultimately, you could meat a nice man or a nice woman but you won't know until you meet them. So just have some patience, let time tell until the right person comes along.

Good luck.

Answer 4

I don't know why you feel you need to put yourself into a category but if you wanted to I would say you were Bi

Answer 5

I think that you are bi but are leaning towards girls. If you have any feelings at all for guys then there is no way you can be L*****n. A L*****n is only attracted to girls and that's it no feelings for guys what-so-ever. So I think you are bi but your leaning towards girls and/or prefer girls.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are bi sexual.   Is that's the case, in the end you will want to be with whichever s*x you happen to fall in love with.  Like Ellen Degeneres' x-girl friend Ann Heche, she is now married to a man and has a child.

As far as children, you could addop.  Not all hetrosectual couples are able to have children.

Answer 7

wow umm...u were kissing in the fourth grade???

jeez that means that you must hav had s*x in like 8th grade

WOW!!  ur lucky

but seriously i was forced to giv a guy a ******* wen i was three and ever since then ive always been attracted to girls

so you should ask yourself if being with a woman is what you rele want and if that is what you want there is nothing wrong with that