Im a depressed 13 year old female........... i cant remember the last time i was happy.......... read on!?

Question

Well my appetite has disapeared and i hardly eat anymore, my mom is getting really worried about me but im just never hungry. I dont do anything at all. because i dont feel like a have a purpose, and i dont have friends (none) because they recently did some rotten stuff to me so i just forgot about them. so now im spending my beautiul summer days and nights on the internet and i feel really crappy, because i know my "friends" are out having a sleepover right now. Im also one of the shyest people on the planet, so im always nervous to call somebody and make a friend.

my life is a mess. im not normal. help me.

Answer 1

I'm 37, I'm the same way, and I haven't changed yet. I get hungrier when I leave the home. Forget stupid friends, clearly they aren't your friends. Maybe join a religion. Just thank God for your Mom because when you grow up and you feel like that, nobody gives you anything to eat, and you just get weaker and weaker until you feel sick.

Answer 2

Hmmm.....I've been there before. Unfortunately sometimes life will pull you down to your lowest point, and it seems like there's just no way to get out of this despair (you're feeling). Try picking yourself off the ground and getting together with some old friends. It'll pass and you'll be happy again. I remember thinking (after my depression) that it realy would have sucked if I had ended my life, because I was doing something fun. You'll come around. Go and do something fun with your family.

Answer 3

Im 13 and i could care less if I have 100 friends. I just have a few main friends. And when school starts you will make friends. And if you feel things dont have a purpose, your wrong. Even if you dont have friends who said you cant hang out your family? I  hang out with my mom and my brother all the time. And im perfectly happy. And what really helps is a summer job. I pet sit and its going great! Hope I could help!

                   ~Tkadvice

Answer 4

you should start a band and write depressing emo poems. your going to be a hit.

Answer 5

talk to your mom.

Answer 6

God is a God of new beginnings, and He loves you. We all get nervous to just pick up the phone, but the bible says we should not live with the spirit of Fear, but of love and a sound mind. You can face these fears with God's help. Just ask him to be with you and go with you, and he will, but you must step out on faith. Just take baby steps, but get out of that house and live. God has a plan for everyone of our lives, seek him and he will show you his will for yours.

Answer 7

You need to get your thoughts of of yourself and start thinking about others. Go volunteer at your local Nursing Home or Hospital. When all we do is sit around and think "oh, poor me" then you will just keep going down farther and farther. Get outside in the sun, take some nice long walks, go visit your grandparents, get a job. Anything that will help you to start helping others will actually help you, because when you are being productive you will feel productive; therefore, feeling better about yourself.

Answer 8

Wow you sound like me.......cept i aint a girl......

Answer 9

Hun first of all your young and your life seems hard right now but don't worry it will get better. You should go out to lunch with your mom and talk to her about how you feel, let her know whats going on in your head. Trust me mothers are the best friends you could have and they won't do anything crappy. Go shopping with her and get new clothes or do something that does make you happy. Meet new people outside of the internet... it sometimes not the healthiest thing for you. So go out and enjoy your summer.... don't spend it at home.

Answer 10

Talk to your mom and tell her whats up sounds like you may benefit from a good counseling session.Sounds like clinical depression to me and I have had it so I know what Im talking about!

Answer 11

well i think that you could try to talk to your mom and if that doesnt work try to get involved in some outside activities like maybe at your church or some place else. you could even pray for god to send you some descent friends who wont do you wrong...

Answer 12

If you want a purpose... watch this short clip. I'm tellin you... it rly just woke me up. By 16 seconds, it rly gets you thinking. trust me.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=AYsClDclvf0

This is cool too!

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6035E4s9sh0

Answer 13

Well

I only have about 2 friends that i keep around me on a regular basis. And the less friends you have the less drama you will have to deal with. The less things you would have to worry about ppl saying about you. When i had a bunch of friends i constantly had to look over my shoulder to see the real from the fake. And eventually i let themm all go. They were all no good. and i am doing way better then them now. Maybe you are upset that your friends did something terrible to you, but you need to forget about them because they weren't your real friends in the first place- if they did something terrible to you. But keep your head up- you sound lonely- nd i am the same way but i am not depressed. relax

and my yahoo name is :tammzchance

if u want to ever talk- i am just like you on the internet al day until i have to work, lol

Answer 14

If you want, I'll be your internet friend.

Email me if you want

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I'm a seventeen year old girl, just to let you know.

Answer 15

now let me ask you a question. have all these symptoms been going on for more than 2 weeks? because if so it sounds to me that you may be suffering from clinical depression. it does not sound like you are suffering from ordinary teenage depression. my suggestion is to find a professional that will be able to help you sort through these problems and give you the best help you can get. until you go and talk to someone, i suggest writing down all these feelings in a journal so you can keep track of how you are feeling day to day.