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Im a little confused, what should i do?

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i just got back from boot camp (Marine corps)

the past 13 weeks i was there i started to develop feelings for my best friend who is also at boot camp (same branch of military)

while i was in boot camp she wrote me alot and i did the same

but i started to fall for her

all the little things about her i noticed are what i like about her

when i got back home i had a lot of flash backs of us hanging out together

she was a great motivator for me

and i was always there for her when she had problems with her family

were not gonna see each other for a few months but shes talking about flying out to were im gonna be at.

im just wondering should i tell her about the way i feel

or wait until we actually up again

i figured if its meant be i can wait

but i dont wanna wait too long

i do have another girl that has...some feelings for me and i do like her (the other girl not at boot camp but not as strong of feeling i have for the girl at boot camp

the only problem with the other girl not at boot camp is that she lives in texas (where i used to live) while im living in chicago and shipping back out to san deigo soon.

if you guys or girls have any advice i would gladly appreciate it

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wait till u see her again becasue then u can read her body language as u tell her... when she flys out near where u are plan a day to hang out with her
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wiat until you meet and asker than make sure you say the right words

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You should definitely stop stringing texas girl along if you do not have strong feeling for her. It is only fair that you be upfront. As for the girl you met at boot-camp, you should definitely tell her. Test the waters first and then gradually reveal how you feel. Don't just...ehm.. drop a bomb on her. Sorry couldn't resist the joke.
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hey man you should wait a bit until she comes.if u dont findany one better go out with her.But dude,...long distance relationships are hard but ...i you really like her be with her and try as much as possible to see her
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just tell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel the same way move on
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do what your heart tells you...if you think your best friend is right for you, then go for her. but please, just tell her how you feel. the worst thing is when a girl doesn't know how you really feel about her, because she could have the same feelings for you. if you don't tell her, then you could be risking a lot of future happiness. it's worth the risk.
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just tell her!
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you NEED to tell her. it sounds like you are juggling between 2 girls but you OBVIOUSLY like one more. you need to let her know and see how she feels. if it isn't meant to be- you can just move on. also, dont lead the other girl on because it will break her heart. and if the first girl doesnt like you- dont tread on it!! get out there and dont let it get you down! but before you talk to her- make sure to let her know you want to stay friends with her on matter what happens because it sounds like what you 2 have is really special :D

good luck!
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you need to be honest to both of them i think...and if your young you should go with your heart...good luck
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Your going to have to choose one of them, since your feeling are stronger for your friend at boot camp, i think you should choose her. Your relationship with the other girl probably wont work out anyway - too long distance. Just tell her that and get over whatever feelings you have for her. Meanwhile Just keep being nice to the girl from boot camp, do something special for her and then let your feelings be known.. if she is comming to visit she probably likes you too.
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What you should do is play both girls!!! If one leaves you, you still have the other one to depend on!!! b*****s ain't **** but hoes and tricks!!!
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Nobody can tell you who is the right girl for you, you have to follow your heart and decide for yourself. You really know who is the right girl we don't. Good luck and God Bless!
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do you know my cousin? He was just in boot camp to im not lying..http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=2...
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whoa. ok so i dnt have much experience with love, bt a part of me wants u to tell ur boot camp frend how u feel, yet another part is telling me that u should wait. after thinking about it i decided that it would be best for u to wait and see wat will develop between  u n ur boot camp frend. unless if ur not in any kind of serious relationship with any1 it would be best to tell her now! so dont just do wat ur mind is telling u to do bt also wat ur heart is telling u  to do. :) i really hope this helped.


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Tell your boot camp friend how you feel, and if she feels the same then you are sorted, Stay friends with the other girl. don't hurt her feelings, be nice to both and treat them like they are your world.
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well i would just tell her, really, as a girl i would want to know who likes me alot. and if you cant see her alot its not gonna work out but just tell her write her a note or somethingg (:
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