Im a teen and pregnet need advice?

Question

ok im a teen 14... and im pregnet what do you think.???

before you judge

im a a/b stdent

can take good care my of my self

have a 2 year old and 1 year old brother that ive been takin care of since they were born

so what do you think

plz be honest and straight out with me

Answer 1

I'm female, using my hubby's account;)!!Well, I was pregnant at 16. I'm going to turn 30 this year.  All I can tell you is that there is a lot of help for you but your child has a lot of struggle ahead of it.  When i 1st had my daughter i saw a billboard with a picture of 5 babies sitting up in diapers, all different races and at the bottom of the billboard it read "If i could talk, i'd ask you to wait".  That billboard was my inspiration to do all I could so that my bad choices in life would not become consequences for my daughter later in life.  In order provide all she deserved (she didn't ask for a single teenage kid for a parent, neither did she deserve it)  I got strength and overcame so many obstacles but nonetheless with struggle and perserverance.  It's hard at that age to put your life aside in order to give your child the best. there is a lot you lose out on in the process.  If you're up for the fight of your life in order to give your child a fair start at life, then go for it.  Otherwise seriously consider adopting and don't get pregnant until you are financially stable (college degree) so that your child won't miss out on things and will never look at you and point the finger for the struggles you gave it.

Answer 2

Well you are young but if you were responsible enough to act like an adult you have to deal with the consiquences. First of all get in ASAP to see a Dr. You will need to take prenatal vitamines right away also. If you have any questions go to

www.babycenter.com

or invest in the book What to Expect When Expecting!

Both are great and will help you through the pregnancy!!

Good Luck

Answer 3

How long have you been with the guy?

Do you have a job?

Enough money to support a baby?

Planning on going to college?

etc.

A baby is alot of work.

14 isn't a very good age to have a child. =/

Answer 4

At 14, pregnancy is dangerous. But since there really isn't anything you can do about it, you will have to take care of yourself. Make sure that you take your prenatal vitamins and do everything the doctor tells you to.

When the baby is born, if you have a daycare at your school, you will be able to put him/her there. If not, you will need to find someone to take care of your child while you go to school. School is very important, you should at least finish high school. Even if you need to take all virtual classes, finish school!

I honestly think you are much too young to have a child. But if you need to talk to other girls, please, feel free to visit http://messageboards.gurl.com/gl-teenpre...

It is a website for girls to talk to other girls, and there is a teen pregnancy board, they will be able to help you better because they have been where you are.

Answer 5

hi there I am 13 going on 14 this month...and I found out yesterday for sure I was pregnant

I have never been around kids tho no1 in my family has had a baby since I was 4 so its tough on me too. have you told your parents I havent. I am sooo scared.

Answer 6

Do you feel like a child would complete you?

and that you are great with children?

an average child from 1-18 years old cost $156,00 on average to raise.

you are going to have to drop out of school and i don't want to scare you but you dug yourself in a pretty deep whole.

no more time for friends with a baby in your arms......

coming straight out.....

i think you should put your child in foster...

Answer 7

you should tell ur parents if you havent already and the guy.

how are you gunna raise the baby and go to school to keep up ur grades?

a/b students get into good colleges.

no one can tell you what the best thing to do is.

only you know whats best for you.

good luck!

Answer 8

What the were you thinking... the guy you are with does not love you no matter what he said to you!  Well at least not at your age.

I think that you should really think ahead to you would happen if you did do it.

Not to say that you are a bad person, because it seems like you are. But when you go to school others will begin to think wrongly of you. Sweetie, it's life!

Answer 9

If you keep the baby, please for the sake of all good in mankind, stay in school. It is not my place to judge your situation, but I can certainly tell you that you need to stay in school. Take a look at your post and you will understand.

Answer 10

I think it was irresponsible to have unprotected s*x before you plan to have a child. But if it was an accident, that's too bad. You need to tell you mum, the guy and your siblings. Tell the later "(Enter name here) is going to have a baby". But you should wait a while, til it's obvious. Just keep up your studies, please.

Answer 11

Do what you feel is right, not what everybody else thinks

and most likely your not going to get any positive remarks on here

but if your asking if its hard, then, yes its very hard, but its possible to do

Answer 12

Why are you pregnant is my first thought my second thought do your parents know? my third thought you sound like a good person but it also kinda sounds like a sob story you know how their all like I'm a good student how could this have ever happened, but its okay because maybe that's not you you shouldn't really Be worried about what we think more so what you and your family thinks but mostly you

Answer 13

don't do what you think is right: do what IS right

http://StandUpGirl.net -- chose well

Before you involve the father in your newly conceived child's life you both should take the test

http://PureLoveClub.com - are you sure it's love?

Answer 14

I am really surprised after all the work you have done taking care of two infants that you would get yourself in this situation.

I am sorry you are pregnant. You are too young to be having a baby. Keep up your school work, which will be hard. Seek help so you don't quit school. Have you considered putting the baby up for adoption? If you have two babies you help care for now, how are you going to care for three?

You  have me very concerned.

Answer 15

Why can't you spell pregnant?

Answer 16

well, what do we think about what? about you getting pregnant? not the best idea, but it's your life. i hope that you keep the baby though, or atleast put it up for adoption

Answer 17

Personally I think you are too young to even have been having s*x, and the consiquences now are a baby.

In some ways it is a consiquence, for others a miracle.

I would just hope that you have money to support a baby, and a supporting family.

& if that doesn't work out, there is adoption, there are so many people in the world that can not have babies that do want one.

Please don't have an abortion.

Praying that everything works out with you, the baby, your family, and your decision.

Answer 18

personally i think you shouldnt have done it....14 is too young

A/B student it doesnt matter youre not goin to b able to take care of a baby with no money coming in

i dont belive in killin things but maybe u should have it& put it up for adoption to a nice family that will take care of him/her

Answer 19

Responding to emm - "you are going to have to drop out of school" Do you know what you are talking about? Obviously not.

What do I think about you being pregnant at 14? Not much I can say about it considering I had my daughter at 14. She just turned one yesterday and I am now 15, still in school. Your age does not define how good of a parent you will be. Being an a/b student has nothing to do with how well you will raise your child, that doesn't even matter when it comes to pregnancy and a baby.

All I have to say is you have a long road ahead of you. With you raising your 2 younger brothers I am kind of confused as to why you would get yourself into this situation, even if it was just an accident.

Oh, and do you even know who the father of your child is? From your other question I am getting that you have 2 boyfriends...?