Im about to go on a date tonight with someone i met on jdate?

Question

im nervous, ive never done online dating before and this guy seems really great. i have no idea what were gonna talk about, or if its just going to come natural. help!

Answer 1

Be yourself, and he will probably love you...try not to be fake, he will see right through you

Answer 2

He is probably just as nervous.  Let the conversation come and just stay cool.  Mabye you will get lucky!

Answer 3

Is it a genuine blind date or have you already seen his pic? Apart from that, you have no idea! For all you know it could turn out to be another female. Well tonight will tell whether or not you ever experience online dating again ! Good luck!

Answer 4

So what is your question? "help!" isn't a question.

Be yourself.

Meet him somewhere, do not give him your address

Do not get in his car and go anywhere during the date...take separate vehicles

Have fun and talk a lot to get to know one another

This is no different than a first date with someone you met offline that you don't know well. The whole purpose of dating is to get to know each other and see if there is relationship potential (if a relationship is desired).

Answer 5

Hopefully the conversation will flow naturally (that means chemistry!) but if not, there are always some things you can do to try to keep it going.

First of all, ask him a lot of open-ended questions about himself. People love to talk about themselves! Make sure they're not just yes or no answers, but something that he has a chance to elaborate on.

I'm a big traveler, so I love starting off with things like "What's the coolest place you've ever visited?" Then ask what was so great about it. Usually all kinds of conversations just stem from that one question.

I also like to ask if they have any interesting little quirks (I myself have an oven phobia - nope, not kidding!). After I share mine, they usually have no problems sharing theirs, and it can be pretty funny.

Make sure that your questions are tailored to your interests and will allow you to really judge if he is someone you could consider going on more dates with.

Also, if you ask open-ended questions and he doesn't really answer them, or keeps his answers short, he may be uninterested. If so, move along and find someone willing to open up!

Good luck! I know you'll have a blast!