Im adopted and i have a question, please help me!?

Question

so im adopted and i know your not given any information about your parents or aloud to find them until you are 18.

im 14, is there anyway i could find my mom???? all i know is her first name so im thinking no... oh well.

i still am wondering...

what is the percent of people that have found their real moms after being adopted?

what is the chance of me finding my mom?\

thankyouuuu. pleaseee help if you know!

Answer 1

go to  

http://www.search.com/

Type in as much as you  know about this person and it will give infomation. Or call 411 and it will ask you a few questions,it will give you her phone # and you can call your mom! I hope you find your real mother

Answer 2

Here is how i learned to view this situation. And this will be blunt. Just a warning. My mom gave me up. She did not want me apart of her life. The Mom that adopted me wanted me in her life. Adoptions these days are not easy to get. She fought for me, and that to me is a true Mom. I sometimes wonder what my real Mom was like, but I decided that I would rather know that Mom that loved me enough to save me from shelters than to know a woman who gave me up. No matter what the reason she had to give me up, Im not interested in knowing.

You cannot get information about your real mother by a first name.

Answer 3

Well if you knew her last name you could look in certain websites such as myspace,Facebook etc. but you could tell your foster parents if they know your mom or you could even check your birth certificate what about your dad? do you know your dads full name?

GooD LucK!

Answer 4

Have you tried talking to your Mom.  Just tell her that you love her, but are curious about your birth mother.  Maybe she can give you more information.  

My niece was adopted and found her birth mother.  Unfortunately, there was a reason that the birth mother gave her up and she still wanted nothing to do with her.  Just be aware that not all searches end up happily.

Answer 5

The people in the adoption section can probably tell you more.  Do you know what agency it was with?

Answer 6

it depends im 19 and found my mother at 18 it was a private adoption and my birth mother and mother were put in contact before my birth by an accountant it happened that they both were using the same accountant  and both still are my mother helped a lot by putting me in contact with the accountant i emailed him and he had my birth mothers email address it can be easy but it can be hard i had been looking for her for 3 years

ask your adoptive mother for any information and help she can give you

but let me tell you its hard on everyone when you do find her she may not want to talk and your adoptive mother will be upset its a hard and very emotional thing so before you continue your search talk to your mother and let her know that you want to find her she may have alot of information that can help in the search

good luck :)

Answer 7

I found my real mom when I was 12...

my foster parents told me my last name before they adopted me and changed it...then I went to the state police and called 411 and googled her name and everything. went halfway across the world to find her. but now she legally adopted me back =]