Im afriad of babys and kids.?

Question

Ever since a pregnancy scare I had, I've been afraid of baby's and kids. I get scared when there to many around me. Or if I see a new born. I'm completely horrified of child birth. Now I'm scared to have s*x, because I'm afraid of pregnancy.

How do I over come this or want kids again?

Answer 1

Go see a therapist

Answer 2

watch the baby shows on tlc

Answer 3

You are 15, so you aren't supposed to be even considering how you'd handle having kids.  Think about something else and know that it will be a long time before you have to consider something as major as marriage and childbirth.  You have plenty of stuff to worry about as you navigate complicated social relationships and high school/college, etc.

So take the whole kid thing off your plate because it's way to far in the future to worry about now.  (Of course, if you are intimate w/your boyfriend, be sure to use birth control, or better yet, wait....15 is too young to be having s*x.  You probably see that now that you've had a scare...)

You will overcome this by concentrating on the other things that 15 year olds should concentrate on.  There's so much to life, but at 15, pregnancy should not be one of them.  Explore the world, enjoy your friends, enjoy learning, there's so much out there.  The more you concentrate on these other things, the less you'll be worried about childbirth.