Im always having these problem with my best friend...?

Question

im not sure why...i think its just me :(

im always getting sad or affended when im around her. shes the type of person that doesn't really know when she hurts someone's feelings... or she doesn't mean for that to happen....anyway, shes a really sweet person but for some reason theres these times when i get sad when im with her and i start crying and saying things to her like "oh you dont care about me" or "you hate me!" stuff like that and now i feel bad for doing things like this...should i write her a letter telling her im sorry? because sometimes she says things that i dont understand and i take it the wrong way and im always thinking she would forget about me or leave me for someone else...

Answer 1

It sounds like your friend needs to be a little more sensitive toward your feelings.  At the same time try not to analyze everything so much.  It sounds like your freinds says whatever is on her mind, so you don't have to worry about there being a deeper meaning.

Do you any other friends that make you feel this way?  If they don't there is something wrong with this relationship and you should spend more time with your other friends.

Answer 2

Sit down, get drunk, tell her how you feel :)

Answer 3

i have two friends who always get into fights they were friends from kindergarden and by the time we were in the grade we are in now they hate each others guts they keep each other around to hate them so maybe you should end it nicely before you end up cussing each other out. or work things out.