Im being bullied,please help me 14 years old 8 grade!?

Question

im a girl

here is the situation

me and my bff made a fake funny myspace and talked bad about all the popular girls

well i told on of them b/c she was my old friend

and she told her best friend who it was

that girl told everyone that me(katie)made a fake annoymous myspace that talked **** about everyone

it was a joke tho(in the begginging at lest)

are default pic was a pic of a toiliet!!!

well i told all the girls im sorry for starting drama and makeing them mad

most of them said ok,lets just forget about it

well there is a boy

and he toldd me

im no body at are school

im a looser

we were practicing for a tonroado and i wasnt sititng against the lockers and he said i hope you dye from a real tonroado

and i feel so immbered

he said more to

and it was infrount of the whole class

my friends just tell me to foget about him b/c he is a popular jerk to most ppl

but i feel so scared of everyone hateing me

i know i did wroung about the myspace thing

but i said sorry

they asked me who helped me with it,but i wont sqweel on my friends like that!

please what should i do

ps,my dad doesnt know about the myspace

and in school these kids all have the excat same scedhule as me

and they all have to sit by me from last names

im scared

i nearly cried earlier

pss,i have friends who just laughed it off,and they tell me just to ingoe it

but they are lucky b/c they helped me with the myspavce and no one know they helped

everyone thinks i am the only one who made the myspace

and remeber i said sorry

these BOYS are bothering me

girls arent as woresed

please help

anything helps

Answer 1

The best thing to do is to ignore it and it will eventually stop. If it persists, tell a teacher or somebody in the staff; they can probably remove some of the students bullying you. Once this has happened, other students will be to afraid to make fun of you anymore.

Usually bullies work on a basis of reaction; if you react, then they will enjoy your reply and keep hassling you. Reactions are mainly caused by emotions. Channel these emotions by concentration on school work or exercising or even writing polemics (which of course you dispose of once finished). When controlling your emotions, you won't react and the bullies will find it boring and stop.

Answer 2

Well, you learned a lesson the hard way.  I would tell them that they are not popular unless they are being joked about.  Everybody loves them and understands its a joke and they should give it about that much thought and move on.  

Answer 3

i feel so so so sorry for u i was such a tomboy in the 8th grade a course that was 1996 and i was a special ed student too people said me and my friend were g*y and it hurt me alot i felt like skipping school everyday and beating up the boys but DO NOT DO THAT! the best solution is the person u were friends with probully is not cool anyways you are very special for who u are i know it is a hard age and you'll do ok i do not think you are a loserplus myspace is a bad bad site to my opinion so yes i think telling your parents is the best thing to do they are the ones who love u and care about u so think postive and don't put your head down honey there will be better times and when your grown they'd probully look back at that time and say why did i do that to that girl on my space so don't cry and keep looking forward to staying healthy and postive hope the school year can be a sucess for u with my advice good luck u go girl show them what u got !

Answer 4

you should report this to your teacher anomyiously in out school (i am 8th Grade also) we have somethign called a gold locker and a tissue box or just leave a note on their desk saying what he has done

Answer 5

First of all, it's good that you recognized that you did wrong by trashing people on myspace. It's not cool to say mean things about people, even anonymously, but I'm sure you've been lectured enough on that. Trust me, I went down the same path as you did. Hopefully, my story will help you.

My bff and I thought it would be funny if we called this guy we didn't like and pretend to be his crush and leave the rejection hotline number for him to call. We used my cellphone but we didn't put the call on private cuz he doesn't pick up private calls. So we left a message as planned then we laughed about it. What I wasn't expecting was for him to CALL me back and say, "Thanks for the call...my best friend just committed suicide!" I was so shocked and mad with myself for what we did that man hand was shaking. We thought he was kidding at first but he wasn't. He shunned us and cursed for a while and even one of our bffs called us bad names! I thought my life would be over and everyone would hate me forever. So what I did was give him a sincere apology twice, then stuck with my close friends and didn't mention what happened. Then it just evaporated.

So my advice is to shrug off what people say, but don't make it seem like you did nothing wrong. Stick with your friends, because people whom say bad things about others are losers.

But you're not a loser, because you're doing something to fix what you did! KUDOS

Answer 6

hun, i suggest u just ignore them. guys often go away if ignored. but if u start to feel u are in danger. then u must tell your parents. better to hear them fuss at u  now , than to not tell and have  the situation  really get  out of hand.