Im bi-sexual ?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Question

im bi-sexual but my mom doesnt know yet ... in fact no one in the family knows it is just my friends that know...should i tell my mom ?

Answer 1

Is she going to freak?

My mom's response was that it wasn't like she'd never slept with a woman.

Answer 2

Only if its really important to you that she knows, and if you're sure she won't kick you out or anything.

Answer 3

If you feel it is beneficial to you as a person or will help you then by all means tell her if you have that type of relationship with your mom. If not, then keep it to yourself as a personal attribute to be shared with those who can actually deal with it. The decisions in life as you already know, get more and more difficult as you mature.

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Answer 4

how old are you anyway's , you could be any age  being bi but if you like 10 --- 17 keep it a secret or tell , but telling is just embarrasing to me 18 and +  that's when i would tell cause then your free! and you have your own life and if...

IF YOUR PARENT'S ARE STRICT DONT TELL - CAUSE THEN THEY'LL GET LOCO lol

There's a time when i like girl's but then... When i look at the jonas brother's video's I GET SHIPE'D OUT 2 SPACE AND LIKE NO OTHER GUY'S BUT THEM  AND I DONT EVEN NOTICE WHEN MY MOTHER CALL'S ME IT'S JUST WEIRD lol

Answer 5

Only tell her if you're ready.

Think about how she will react.

Bring up something about bisexuals and see how she reacts.

Answer 6

depends on how your mom is.  but if you will be being girls home, i would tell her  

Answer 7

I think if you are over the age of 18, your s*x life is no ones business..

Answer 8

Try to break it gently. Especially if your parents r like mine and bible thumping Christians. My mother sent me to be exorcisted so be careful hun. good luck

Answer 9

You should gradually talk to her about it or hint to it or if you want to tell her or you think she's a person you want to trust with this ordeal tell her  

Answer 10

Um sure why the h**l not. shell learn to deal with it. my dad learned to deal with me being a vegan and my boyfriend learned to deal with me wanting to keeo my virginity so it should all work out:P

Answer 11

i'd save it for when your mum is really mad at you

then bam you explode and tell her youre bi

works every time

Answer 12

My mom found out by accident and was pissed. She thought it was an excuse for me to have s*x and whatnot. Finally I e-mailed her (didn't have the balls to say this face to face) that she raised me right and that I wasn't gonna have s*x til I'm married and I still believe in God and blahblablah.  So she has me agree to go to a therapist. We get there, we go in, we leave, and mom says to me, "We are never going back. She was a moron. Don't have s*x. Let's get ice cream."

Now she is 100% cool with me and what I do or don't do.

Do what you think is best, man.

Answer 13

Keep it to yourself for awhile, and well...let it marinade. Something that I've realized a lot of LGBT people do is as soon as they figure themselves out they shout it out over roof tops, and tell everything. Yea, it is a big thing for yourself, but be sure that telling others would be best for you. The majority of homeless youth are LGBT, so figure out how she might react before you say it.