Im boy like one girl, but im fat that's why im not confident that she ready to be my girlfriend.please tell me

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Answer 1

If she likes you back, it doesnt matter what you look like on the outside, but what you are like on the inside. It does help if you keep your appearance neat and you should look like you do take care of yourself. If you are not confident and are fat, then do something about it. It doesnt take a lot of money to lose weight and get healthy. All you need is to change your habits, eat healthier, get out and walk or run more often, look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are somebody and are a good person and you can have any girl you want.

Answer 2

dont worry its all about the person inside not the outside besides i think your sweet!

Answer 3

go to the gym loose those pounds or on basketball field or just biking and jogging then you get the confidence and you will be able to talk to anybody you want. that is what i did when i was younger I went to the gym workout for 2 hrs met great people there and i got to running up to 10 miles everyday helped me a lot. good luck

Answer 4

well theres nothing to be not confident about....i'm a little chubby too its not a big deal... if it makes you feel any better, work out for a couple of weeks before you ask her...and ask a friend to ask her questions for you, to let you know what she's thinking....good luck!!

Answer 5

Today, girls are more choosy about their boyfriends. The no more go on the looks, but what they see is our heart, your character and your behaviour towards them. If u lov her, u must make her feel that she is ver important in ur life. U must give her time to realise ur lov. Don't be demanding and never think that a fairy can't lov an elephant (u r not n elephant here, but thats just a saying)

It really doesnt matter much how u look, but yes if u behave as a girl, u better try working on the "man" side. U can better join a gym if u r so much concerned.

P.S.: I was too in ur postition last yr. I was overweight by 30 kgs and weighed 100kg. Now i weigh 79kg and look like a rockstar. What did i do? Just joine d jym and rest hapenned itself. I know it used to feel like punishing myself on the early days, but for a girl that loves me, I m ready to bear any amount of load and shame. Bye. Goodluck

IF U LIKED A WORD OF WHAT I SAID< DO MAIL ME AT [e-mail] I am frm Delhi onl dude. Bye

WE CAN TALK TO RESORT THE ISUUE AND HELP U OUT. BYE FRIEND.

Answer 6

it doesn't matter you are fat or skinny, as long as you take care of yourself, not to stink or anything, you still have a chance. buck up and go and ask her out.

Answer 7

Hey fatty!  Lose some of that weight if u expect to get that girl to like u.  Unless she is fat too.

Exercise some: Jog and bicycle and work out. U go for it.  It's all yours just for the taking off some of that fat.  Do it one day at a time.  Little by little u will be less.  Of u I mean, but more of Mr. look at me now guy. After u lose that weight she will be so impress to find that under all that fat was a good looking boy.  Then u have to talk to her.  Get to know her.  Ash her question about her.  Girls like to talk about themselves.  So get her talking about her self.  Then pop the question.  "Would u go to lunch with me."  Then maybe u will be able to get into her panties.  If u know what I mean. h**l maybe u will look so good u will start seeing some of those other pretty girls and get in all of their panties.  Something to work for.

CHUCK

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Answer 8

Physical looks are not everything in a man or a woman. You should try asking her feelings.

you never know !! good luck

Answer 9

Ask her if she won't accept coz you are fat then try to loose weight. She will then consider that you loose weight only for her and she will be your then.

Good Luck

Answer 10

Sometimes the body doesnt matter so go ahead. If she says  youre fat and says no then shes not worth it. Dont waste your time with someone who cant accept who you are. Nothing like that or even similar has happened to me but im still just saying! :D

Answer 11

Ask her.  You never know until you try.  You sound okay and like you really like her.  GOOD LUCK!

Answer 12

First thing to remember is that if she didn't like you for who you are then she wouldn't want to be with you. You have to have confidence in who you are before you can exepect anyone to like you. If she wants to be your girl then there must be something that she likes about you. have confidence in yourself and trust your gut. Not sure how old you are but if you are young (I am 24) then just ride it out. Enjoy your youth and your life. TAKE YOUR TIME! Oh, and give her the benefit of the doubt. You have to trust before knowing if someone is trust worthy. Good Luck! :)

Answer 13

I'm sure you're a pretty nice guy and sweet too so why don't you just let her get to know you for a little while as friends before you ask her to be in a romantic relationship with you? That way she will get to see your inner qualities first and have more information about you when you ask her to be your girlfriend.