Im cheating and I need to chose and end the lies PLESE some advice?

Question

I'm married about 1 year ago me and my husband decided to have a open relation ship. Well I met a guy he is 8 yrs younger than me but he is very much in love with me a hard worker and very responsible but so is my husband, its been 3 months since my husband called off the open thing and I have continued to see him but he nor my husband know that I'm with the both of them they know about each other as each being a ex . the point is I LOVE THEM BOTH. Now what do I do???????????????? oh 1 more thing I have been married to my husband for 9 years and seeing the other for 1yr.

Answer 1

You better stay with your husband because if you lose him, and stay with the young guy things will change once he has you all to himself. Then you will lose your husband of 9 years who you know you can get along with!  

Answer 2

Mistake number one:  If you are going to cheat, you never fall in love with the other person, especially if your spouse is not doing anything wrong.  I don't know what to tell you, but I think you should let the younger guy go.  Since your husband is doing nothing wrong...what a fool for saying "open" relationship, he must of had him some on the side also.

Answer 3

You are the only one who can decide... your life, your marriage and what to do... take a break and clear your thoughts, then it will be easier for you to decide. when in doubt try not to make a hasty decision.

Answer 4

keep having fun till u get caught

Answer 5

wow  

Answer 6

Toss a coin.

Answer 7

d**n girl you're lucky..lol Which one do you see a future with? The one that makes you feel whole is the one to go with. Good luck

Answer 8

Well, first thing i would do is really think it over, who do i love more. My husband or a guy i am having an affair with. With either answer talk to both of them, You husband deserves to know what is going on. then you "boyfriend" he also deserves to have a part in it. take it from experience. when your cheating on a guy, its better to tell him and work everything out other then letting him find out the hard way. if your husband was willing to have an open relationship then maybe he will be willing to hear you out and discuss things over. hope i can help, good luck with everything.  

Answer 9

how could you do that ? I didn't  know what to say this u r problem but i thing you have to end this you have to chosed who the  one you are really love ,,stop liying...for me i never agree with open relationship and should stop by now

Answer 10

so much for the marriage vows, see you in h**l.

Answer 11

HOW CAN YOU LOVE THEM BOTH, CHEATING *****. GET REAL. IF YOU THINK YOU WILL GET SYMPATHY FROM ANYONE OTHER THAN SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS A LYING CHEATER THEN YOU ARE MISTAKEN.

YOU ARE A SELFISH ***** JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHER LYING CHEATERS.

PFFFFFFFFFFFFFT

******* GROW UP

Answer 12

Your husband opened your marriage, so it is open. That is not possible first to open it, then close it, when you could find your fun. So, I advice you not to make any problem from the situation, love both of them, be with both of them, as it is convenient for you.  

Answer 13

Sorry honey, another 10 years and he will be looking at your ugly wrinkled lying face!  Your hubby will find a fine younger lady his age and respects him.  you lose!

Answer 14

Why get married if you wanna be a w***e? If you like the younger guy why bother and fool the one your married to.