Im confused a little? please..?

Question

ok im 14 almost 15 and learned s*x ed 5.6.7 grade ( different schools ) but they teach you to wear protection, but if parent wants a kid, dont they not wear condoms? but then there is a chance getting a std.. right? im confused sort of on how that works. please kind of clarify?

Answer 1

As long as either parent don't have an STD and they want a baby then they don't have to wear condoms and don't have to worry bout an STD.  Someone you have s*x with has to have an STD for you to get it .  They don't just come from nowhere.  Unless you want a kid which surely you don't right now, I'd stick with condoms.

Answer 2

STDs don't spring up out of thin air just because two people have s*x.  One of them has to be infected in the first place.  STDs are just germs, not morality judges sent to punish you for having s*x.  Couples are supposed to have blood tests, etc, before they get married, so that they know they're both disease free before they start having s*x and don't need a condom for that reason, just for being able to have intercourse without making babies.  Or more often, the woman uses a birth control pill to keep from getting pregnant, so they don't need condoms at all.  Getting pregnant is the "default" condition, that is, if they stop trying to prevent having kids, the kids start showing up automatically when they have intercourse (if all goes well).

Probably it's confusing to you because your teachers are more intersted in scaring you away from s*x than in telling you how to have it safely.

Answer 3

it means the protection is for before marrage they test for stds when yougetmarried and if both ar faith full after then stds are  not probable so kids ok

Answer 4

yes to have children you don't wear a condom and there is a chance of an std which is why both of the parents should get tested before hand. What they teach in school is if you have s*x before you get married and how to not have children.

Answer 5

ok glad i read this one.

a condom is a latex  tube that goes over the p***s so s***n does not go inside your partner. but it also acts like a shield for you. if a person as an std the skin will fight it and win 99.99999% time. but if you a a cut the  chances are HUGE.  you get stds form tears, sweat and any fluid that comes out of the body. and the only way you contact it is.

if any of fluid enters.

your mouth, eyes, a**s, uretha (pee hole)  or any type of cut. (not to be confused with a scratch. if theres blood it will contract.

condoms do not 100% protect but any help you do the get that protection rate up do it. no oils on the condom. you should no that.

OILS not lubercient  

Answer 6

okay USUALLY the parents are married when they decide to have a child... and before you have s*x... condom or not... you should go get a blood test along with your partner to make sure neither of you have an STD. so if they are married and neither of them are cheating on each other and they've both been tested neither of them should have an STD. they don't just pop up ya know? you have to have s*x with an infected person to get one. so IF they decide to have a child it should be safe.  

Answer 7

Yeh if your a married couple wanting children you dont wear a condom.  However if that person has an std you really should think about whether or not you want it too.  Most marriages since 1995 dont last more than 10 years so if you want and std when your a free person thats your choice.  What they are teaching you in those classes is how to have preventive s*x.

Answer 8

you should wear a condom until you are married and in a committed relationship with only one person for the rest of your life. You will then not be at risk for an STD because you both can be tested and make sure you don't have them and then have unprotected s*x. If you don't have an STD to begin with you cannot give it to someone.