Im confused about this guy?

Question

theres this guy that i didnt even like or notice at the first few days of school in college, then he sat next to me and introduced himself and asked for the notes from the previous class, I thought he was wierd, but one time while we were leaving, he opened the door for me and i stared at him for like 10 sec and he stared back at me and smiled, thats when i noticed that he has the most amazing eyes and smile that i have ever seen, I think i fell in love with him, after that we walked down the hall ( he was in front of me ) and i saw him looking at the side ( i think he was checking if i was behind him or what ) and then he went in the restroom but i didnt follow him there ( im so stupid!!) Everytime we talk to each other in class he always smiles which is cute.. hes so handsome and very masculine looking plus he wears those glasses that makes him look geeky smart which i find cute, the problem is i dont know how to aproach him and ask him out because he might be straight and just friendly. i really want him

btw im not out and im pretty straight acting but some people are guessing coz i dont have a gf.

Answer 1

you can probably talk to him about girls and stuff see how he reacts...and i think its about time you come out if you are attracted to this boy, maybe you can be like do you wanna study sometime and start hanging out becoming friends and then u'll see what type of person he is...WHAT COLOR ARE HIS EYES..i'm obsessed with gorgeous eyes..haha  

Answer 2

The only way to ask him about is... to ask him about it. lol

Until then, you can just subtly hint at liking him with non-verbal communication.

But if he likes you, and neither of you act on your feelings, then you'll never go anywhere.

Answer 3

I think you're smitten with him!

Why don't you ask him out for a snack or a quick bite to eat, just to talk.

Answer 4

well maybe u should ask him

or watch his behavior?

Answer 5

Ask if he's g*y. If he is, ask him out.

Answer 6

Be proud of who you are :) Easier said than done but if you teach yourself to be be proud and not care what other people say or think about you then you'll feel alot happier. Just talk to him, build a friendship. Atleast if you were open about being g*y you could see his reaction?

Answer 7

Ask him to go for coffee to talk about the class.  Low-key, legitimate reason, built-in topic.  

Answer 8

just straight up ask him

Answer 9

go for it and if he is straight and you feel embarrassed or whatever just say it was a joke

Answer 10

well, one of you has to make the first move and if you really like him you should do it

Answer 11

Aw, how sweet :3 i'd ask hi if he wants to study :D  

Answer 12

well if you are in college your old enough to ask him out so just go for it!

Answer 13

Wellllll.......... Most straight men don't open the door for men.  I don't think I've seen any man other than a subordinate do it.  Since you are both students, I suspect he is not subordinate to you.  Therefore, you might approach him cautiously and ask him if he wants to go have coffee with you or something.