Im confused what is your fisrt love what does it mean to u??

Question

id say my 1st love was a boy i met 4 yrs ago wen i was 15 he was 16 we really liked each other i got butterflys wen i saw him or thought about him n my heart wud b racing i havnt felt liked that about any 1 esle yet wud i be rite to say he was my first love?? n if he felt the same asi did wud i have been his first love?? i still have a soft spot for im wud he do me ?

im female by the way xx

Answer 1

Your first love is the first person you fall for. The first person you will never forget, the best friend you'll always think about and smile even if things go wrong in the relationship and you separate.

The first person you have those intense feelings for that you never feel again until you find that special someone you end up spending your life with. The first love is the first person that makes you think about spending your life with them and no one else. Having their children, marriage and a quaint little house. The first love is always the one you never forget, and never want to.

I could be true that boy was your first love, and who knows if he still feels the same way about you. But my personal opinion is that this was an intense crush. First love's USUALLY form out of relationships, you don't truly know someone unless you're in a relationship with them, even if you are just friends or lovers. It's all personal, do YOU think of him as your first love? And if you do, then congrats honey he's your first love :)

My only question is if you two had such strong feelings for each other, why didn't you act on it and create a relationship? Who knows what could have happened, you could always try seeking him out and seeing if there are still feelings there?

Good luck honey, I hope you find the answer you're looking for.

Answer 2

IT COULD BE LOVE. OR JUST YOU MAT JUST BE ATTRACTED SEXUALLY

Answer 3

If that,s the case i had allot of first loves . I think it would be your first commitment

Answer 4

I consider a first love being the first person you really had a ridiculous crush on...just like what you described. It was about 8 years ago now, but whenever I think of him I do kinda miss him still.