Im confused with his sexuality?

Question

So Im in the closet and g*y and Im 18 and a senior in high school. i met this boy at my work, who now is a freshman at a local communtiy college like 25 mins away. we text all the time and hes never commented on a girl before. now: most of the texts detail a heart symbol or i love u..."i <3 u" or in spanish h**l tell me it too (only cuz i do it to him in spanish) so pretty much hes saying "im g*y im g*y im g*y! go out with me! (im in the closet). 2 things deter me from him being g*y. one is he seems like hes always busy and the second thing is this. i just sent him a text saying i wana give him a big fat kiss on the lips. his response was this: "lol ew". THATS IT! what the hey does that mean!?!?! am i missing something. hes flat out texted me he loves me on a daily basis!!!! i dont get it at all!!

Answer 1

If I was u I would jus ask him. Either he is or either hes not. GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

He&#039;s g*y.

Answer 3

He might be confused too!

Answer 4

If a girl told a guy she was going to give him a big fat kiss on the lips and he said lol ew she would be insulted. If you are exchanging text messages they are very ambiguous on his part. I would just continue the friendship on a non-romantic basis and look for romance in other guys (if that is what you want to have).

When someone loves you in a romantic way - this applies to g*y or straight couples - he doesn&#039;t act repulsed at the thought of kissing you.

Answer 5

maybe he just thinks of you as a friend....

idk

good luck

Answer 6

Maybe he&#039;s confused on his own sexuality..... Most guys, like yourself, that are in the closet not only have a hard time coming out of the closet, but many have a problem accepting it for themselves. If I were in your position, I would be completely patient and let him make the first move.....  

Answer 7

Ask him. Forget trying to guess and making assumptions. It&#039;s better to know than it is to guess. Ask him and get it over with.

Answer 8

He&#039;s probably kidding. It&#039;s easy with email, texting and other message forms to take something out of context. If He&#039;s sending you hearts and I loves you&#039;s, well, that&#039;s not what guys that likes girls tend to send other guys. So, there&#039;s probably a chance you two could go out. Best of luck.

Answer 9

ok any straight guy would not under any circumstances text i love you unless you where his best friend from 2nd grade, and then still totally not acceptable. but to be on the safe side i would wait for more clues. (but hey he may be in the closet too, and just isnt sure if your g*y or not as well)

Answer 10

Ask him if he&#039;s g*y.

Answer 11

don&#039;t repress that you are g*y, it will haunt you and bring you down for ever. Its too bad society hasn&#039;t fully matured and excepted  the g*y and L*****n issue,

Answer 12

If i were in that situation i would tell him how i feel like Im sorry but i dont feel that way about you can we just be friends???...Hope this helps and Everything works out :)

Answer 13

ask him.