Im constantly stressing and crying over this:(?

Question

So all my life ive been self concious about my large labia's. I hate them so much and i just wish i was like every other girl with barely any noticable labia lips. And im pregnant. And so nervous and scared for my doctor to see me down there. Let alone my mother. Ive been crying the past two weeks. Im so embarassed:( any other girls have the same thing? i know im not the only one. but im nervous because i dont think people know to much about it. im just so scared. please help

Answer 1

No, honey, don't stress over that. You are talking about your body! Your beautiful and perfect body, that is carrying a new life inside. I know you may think that since it's not my problem, i cannot place myself in your shoes, but there are many of us, who have many hidden flaws, and the only way for you to live happy and stress free is to embrace your femininity and accept your body. This is something only people who love you or people who are medical professionals will see, and i'm positive they won't mind. So, please, try accepting your body the way it is and do not stress over it, your baby perceives your feelings, and if you don't feel right, he will pick up on it.

Answer 2

You shouldn't be scared to see your Dr, after all, doctors have seen a lot of different types of conditions even more worse than what you think and they know how to handle them. and about your mother 'she is your mother' and don't be too scared because I believe that your secret is even more safer with your mother than with your friends and she will stand by you all the way. Just be comfortable with your body and concentrate on your precious baby you are expecting. Good luck.

Answer 3

There's no such thing as "like every other girl with barely any noticable labia lips".

Women's genitals come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

Some have big, puffy outer lips and tiny little inner ones that can't even be seen without spreading their legs and outer lips both... some have smallish outer lips and inner lips that stick out firmly from them or hang... some have one lip that's one shape and the other lip is completely different.   Some have really big or really little clitorises.

Knowing and accepting your unique "genital geography" isn't something mothers usually pass along to their daughters... but it's something every woman should learn.

See the life-drawings at:

http://bettydodson.com/subsex41genart.ht...

See also the user-submitted photos at:

http://bettydodson.com/subgenit.htm

The female genitals in every one of these pictures are perfectly normal in every way.  It's very unlikely that yours are *not* normal, and you should get to know them well and learn to love them.   They're a very important part of what it means to be *you*.

Answer 4

You should not be embarrased about that. I happen to like large labias (I am a male) and get really turned on by them. Since you are pregnant, it sounds like another guy didn't mind it either. As far as your doctor, believe me, they have seen it all, enough to the point that it probably looks normal to them.

So just consider yourself well endowed. I do.

Answer 5

Don't even fret it hon. I am a male and it doesn't matter one way or another to me. There are a lot of girls that have your same thought. I have seen more like yours in my lifetime than the smaller ones. As far as the doctor goes, they have seen yours a million times and a million more twice as big. Don't worry about it one bit, trust me. Good Luck.

Answer 6

You could be crying so easily because youre preganant...your hormones are wild right now!

Alot of women worry abuot this, youre definetly not alone. YOu know what though? dont worry about what the doctor thinks. they have seen EVERYTHING under the sun..you will not be "weird" or anything like that. they really have seen everything.