i have asthma and i have good days and bad days. On good days im happy ect and on bad days i must admit im a stroppy moody nitemare esp when my friends are all away in a club and im stuck watching the tv. My mum acts as my carer when im real bad and does everthing for me, BUT at the same time she says things like "other people have asthma why cant you get rid of yours?" and "why didnt i have a normal child?" and it makes me feel awful. She gets too dramatic when i have attcks too like shes run about panicking bafor taking me to AandE so i feel guilty that i get her in such a state to the point where ive hidden my condition. I mean im in college now and she insists on walking me to get my train and collecting me as i get off ive told her i need space but she goes off on one.
Now, after a bad week of asthma, i was feeling down so i took out a temper on not being able to go out and my mum went mental, threw things at me . She keeps saying i need to pull myself together but i cant obviously because i cant get a job and college is stressing me and making my condition worse. So i feel dependant on her but at the same time i resent her. I i were well id pack my bags and leave. It like she wants to control my life and uses my poor health as an excuse. She banned me from seeing my boyfriend cos she didnt like the look of him, she wouldnt let me go on holiday with my friends, she contrantly says i need to do something with the way i look but ive explained to her that why you can hardly breathe everyday being fashionable doesnt really matter. She keeps going on about how ima disappointment, i mean ive never done drugs, never done anything real bad i just dont know what she wants to wave a magic wand and be the healthy child she wants? ah i got to get away from her!!!!
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