Im desperate...?

Question

im so desperate for a baby but i dont know why!...im 19 nearly 20 and at uni...im always the 1st 2 judge young mums but for the past year all i can think about is having a baby...im in a long term relationship with my bf who i love very much but dont want to feel like this!! i imagine caring 4 a baby and doing all the washing ironing and shopping etc whilst my bf at work...how can i stop myself feeling like this?i dont want 2 ruin my future career but i feel so strong

Answer 1

Don't subject a child to an unplanned situation... Just because you have some selfish need...Not to mention trapping the boy friend in a marriage or relationship for a life time that he may not want... You will ruin your and every ones life around you with an unplanned pregnancy...Children are a long term commitment and require allot of money and time to raise...

Answer 2

its hormones its normal dont worry, just concentrate on your studys and wait a while

Answer 3

if you have a baby at your age  you have got it for the next 18 years stay at uni and have a life whill your young

Answer 4

it will pass we all feel like that at times its the bodys way of trying to reproduce wait until your married and settled and then weight up the options

Answer 5

Stop BS'ing us. You don't want a baby you just want attention don't ya?

Silly girl you make me laugh. ha he hahe!

Answer 6

first of all calm down :) we all feel like this, broody. Think of how happy you want to make the child, when you have finished work and established a sound career, then you have time to make babies! Don't make life difficult for yourself now instead wait(because uni flys by) and sort the right things out. University is the best 3 yrs of your life, your last chance of freedom dont take it away, you already have disciplined yourself by having a boyfriend which takes away abit of freedom. Let the baby grow up in a mature enviroment when everything is finacally secure too. Babies cost a lot of money and being a student is hard as its something we dont have a lot of!

Answer 7

biological clock its normal but as I man I don't truly understand so I will only give you the advice I am capable of giving...

get over it get on with your uni and you will have no worries then have a baby

Answer 8

I totally understand you cos I'd the same feeling just like you. But, I'll say, WEEK UP!!!!!! concentrate with your studies or your career.