Im feeling really left out???

Question

my brother recently came home from college. we went out to eat today and i felt so left out today. i have another brother and a sister.

i was walking next to my brother and then out of nowhere mty other brother comes and like pushes his way between us and then my sister does the same thing and im on the other side.

i feel so left out cuz when they are tlking and i dont hear something and i say what they ignore me or say im really nosey.

i felt like crying right there. but i didnt.

i have been quiet now for the rest of the night and everyone is now asking me what is wrong. should i tell them?

ps.-i have cut myself before and i think they are just acting like they want to know whats wrong so that i dont end up doing it again...but i really want to do it again right now. PLEASE HELP!

Answer 1

they probably also missed your brother and wanted to talk and be around him so dont feel bad.  they probably didnt even realize that they were being mean to you.  you just need to voice your opinion to your family no matter how much you think they might think its stupid.  just tell them you felt really lonely and left out and they will probably try to make things better. im pretty sure they didnt mean to make you feel bad so dont take it personally.  just let it go and get in there next time so you dont feel left out.

Answer 2

I think alot of it is jealousy, but you should let them know what is wrong. They wont know unless you tell them

Answer 3

instead of resorting to inflicting pain on yourself..you need to talk to them. Communication is so important in any relationship..you need to let them know how you feel and from there hear what they got to say..but its very important to let them know that this is a serious talk and that you have been really hurt by this..hopefully from there they will take you seriously and hear you out and try to fix their problems. really though, hurting yourself will only bring you down more and everytime you see your cuts it will remind you of what had happened and you want to forget the bad parts of life and try to stay postive!

its sad to hear that people have to do that..really..try your hardest to not hurt yourself. I hope you take my advicew and talk to them..goodluck! :)

Answer 4

Don't do that if your upset d**n. You need to tell them why you did that and talk to some one.