Im freaking out info PLEASE!?

Question

long story short: I am 17, girl was 21 and the condom broke. This was like 2 hours ago. Say she gets pregnant. What happens to me? Child support, daddy, etc. ? Im a minor right so?... By the way I live in Oregon. OMG im freaking out. Also I turn 18 in October. I know it sounds mean and stupid but omg what am i going to do? I know i should of thought about it first.. dont say that because its not helpful at this point. INFO PLEASE!

Answer 1

I wouldn't freak out yet. A woman can only get pregnant at a certain time of the month and she may not have been on that 5-7 days. However if she does get pregnat  what do you mean what happens to you? You have to take care of your child. If you are so concerned then do not have s*x. s*x was created for PROCREATION. You shouldn't be doing it if you are not ready to face possible concequences.

Answer 2

Well if she isnt keen on having a baby with you either then talk to her about getting the morning after pill which can be taken within a couple of days. It's an effective precaution, it prevents implantation in case there is a conception and it is not the same as an abortion. If she wont take it, then all you can do is wait and see. Let me tell you though that although its possible to get a woman pregnant in only one ejaculation, it is rare. Took me 3 months of unprotected s*x to get pregnant this time around.

Edit -  If she is taking plan B then no need to worry. The risk of her getting pregnant would be like the same as if the condom hadn't broken in the first place. Freak less.

Answer 3

If Plan B fails, then legally you are financially responsible for the child. Do the right thing and pay child support. Your parents can not do anything stupid as this event wasn't exactly illegal. Statutory rape is something that can come up, but I doubt the age difference is enough to really claim a case. If a child is born, you will be a legal adult by the time it is born, so you'll just need to get a job and help support the baby.

Remember that she will not be "getting you" for child support. Paying her through the system protect you as well as her as well as the child. With Plan B, you have a low chance of worrying about this, but the chance is still there. So, just man up and do the right thing.  

Answer 4

hun dont be upset or scared if your prego your prego me i dont beleive in the pill to prevent pregnancy i am sson to have my baby but if you are you are you probably have very good support from family and friends :D

Answer 5

if she wnats the plan be fine but not everyone belives in it. should ahev thought about this. plus maybe she wont want you in the babies life who knows.

Answer 6

dude seriously? fall out the stupid tree or somthing? called the morning after pill / plan B

she wont be pregnant

seriously how can you be nearly 18 and so dumb , i knew this when i was like 11

Answer 7

Send her to a clinic to get a morning after pill. It's confidential. No you are not a minor, age of consent is 16. You would be responsible for the child and all that comes with it.

Answer 8

There is the morning after pill she can take to prevent pregnancy from happening.  Talk to her about this.  Call planned parenthood or a doctor.  Also, you should know at 17 that birth control failures can occur so if you're not prepared to raise a child, don't have s*x.

Answer 9

2 hours ago and she says she's pregnant????? Helllloooooo that's not how things work! She wouldn't know for a while! If it literally just happened, just have her get the morning after pill as extra protection.  

Answer 10

I agree with eml. Talk to her about taking the morning after pill.

Answer 11

Please don't freak out!  Getting pregnant is actually very hard to do!  There is actually only a very small window of time when a girl can fall pregnant, usually around the middle of her cycle.  And even if you have s*x at the right time (well, wrong time for you!) - the chance of her falling pregnant is still very small (around 15%).  Also, she can have the "morning after pill".  This can be taken within a few hours (24 I think) of having s*x, and it will prevent pregnancy from occurring.  If she is around mid cycle (or even if she isn't), this may be a good idea.  Good luck!  I am sure you will be fine.

Answer 12

Ok, try not to freak out too much at this point. It depends on where she is in her cycle whether she gets preg. Usually in the middle of the cycle (approx 2 weeks after last period began) is the time most likely to get pregnant. Ask her when her last period was. A home pregnancy test can be useful and can detect hormone changes before a missed period (her next one). I commend your for using protection, it's a bugger it broke, I'm sorry to say you'll have to wait a little while before finding out as it's only been 2 hours. In the mean time try not to get yourself worked up... it took me 8 months to get preg.

good luck :)