Im getting a circumcision in 3 weeks , any advice (adult male)

Question

hi all out there ,

im getting a circumcision in 3 weeks on doctors advice because of a tight f******n , she (the doctor ) has not as yet given me much advice for before or after ,

any advice from guys that had or girls that know about it would be great ,

cheers and thanks in advance..

Answer 1

you should join these two groups.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Inter-Circ...

http://groups.google.com/group/CIRCLIST

Over 2000 members circumcised as adults. and very happy about it.  they will tell you what you need to know.  

You should also go to these sites for general circumcision information.  find out what style  and method of circumcision she is going to use. Yes, there are different styles and methods.

Modern circumcisions are done using local anesthetic  and dissolving sutures.  it takes about 30 min to 1 hr.  you will feel discomfort, but not much pain.  stitches dissolve or must be taken out after ten days.

no s*x for  4-5 weeks.  

here are my sources:

http://www.circlist.com/

http://www.gilgalsoc.org/

http://www.aboutcirc.com/

http://www.medicirc.org/

http://www.circumcisioninfo.com/index_ho...

http://www.circinfo.net/

http://www.circinfo.com/

Instead of cotton underwear, get yourself a couple  of pairs of compression shorts or helly hansen underarmour briefs made of polypropyline.  

do not listen to Harriet.  she doesnt have a p***s.  A dorsal slit will make your p***s look like the underside of a bulldogs jaws, and leave a lot of skin flopping around which you dont need.

Answer 2

I had a circumcision as an adult .  I would tell you DONT DO IT!  IT is quite painful for several weeks, you may lose length , as I did, and your p***s will not be as sensitive.  Please reconsider.  

Answer 3

My advice is to get a second opinion. There are stretching exercises and steroid creams that can be used to prevent most cases of tight f******n.

Answer 4

I would urge you to reconsider.      There are other treatments for a tight f******n which don't involve the drastic mutilation of circumcision.

Type in phimosis on your browser, and you will see a lot of sites, in particular one called CIRP.    There are stretching exercises, steroid creams, and even a tool called a "glansie," to help widen the f******n opening, allowing for normal retraction and f******n movement.

Lastly, there is a small cut, called a dorsal slit, which is a small slit cut in the f******n opening to facilitate retraction when stretching doesn't help--for the more severe cases.

Doctors usually advise circumcision for the slightest problem with the f******n---they themselves usually are circumcised and haven't a clue as to how the f******n really feels.     Doctors make money from the procedure and are frequently members of the minority religions groups that try to impose this practice on others.     Most doctors are biased for circumcision, obviously, that's how the practice became so widespread in the US.

You may also want to visit a site called CIRCUMSTITIONS, for more information.    At least do your homework and investigate the possibilities of complications and implications of this before you regret it.  

Circumcision will amputate the nerve endings in the f******n, and permanently damage remaining ones.    There will be scar tissue, which will further decrease sensitivity.     As the glans and surrounding tissues dry out and keratinize, sexual sensitivity will diminish constantly, inexorably, for the rest of your life.      There will be no skin movement during erection, masturbation or s*x.      It's possible that your erections will be tight, even painful, and can be distorted as a result.      Your p***s will be smaller in girth instantly by a double thickness of skin all around, actually four thicknesses in diameter.

Circumcision destroyed my s*x life.     The nerve damage that I sustained was more than the average, making it impossible for me to achieve o****m in normal s*x.   After years of frustration, I finally learned what had been done to me, and I found out about f******n restoration, which has increased my sensitivity and orgasmic intensity.

It's your p***s and your decision.     I didn't have a choice, having been mutilated as an infant.     But for your own sake, please investigate the implications of this before taking that drastic step.    As you stated above, the doctor didn't give you much information about this.

A whole, natural and normal p***s feels and functions better than a scarred, mutilated and partial one.

A f******n is not a birth defect; it is a birthright.

By the way, your condition was probably caused by premature forcible retraction of the f******n when you were an infant or toddler, which damages the elasticity of the f******n opening before it has a chance to develop properly---this is all too common as caregivers, from doctors and nurses to parents, are frequently uninformed about the proper care of the intact f******n.     They should absolutely never be retracted until the child himself does it at the age of about 8 or thereabouts.

Good luck to you

Answer 5

Do not wear jeans after!! Wear tracksuit bottoms until it has healed.

And obviously no s*x until it has healed.

Answer 6

i suggest you cancel it

Answer 7

I wish my parents hadn't chosen it for me, when I found out about it I read everything I could, I know tons of information about and have read both pro and anti circumcision websites, I really wanted to believe it was good, but the truth just isn't there, you see and hear all these claims but if you ask for the actual study nobody has them or they are so old and used invalid techniques and would not even be considered for publishing, I wanted to believe it was good but if you look at both sides, circumcising without an immediate medical need makes no sense at all. I later did f******n restoration restoring what was left (they do leave some f******n) but it's not all restorable, but what I was able to get back was great. but this came at a price, I can no longer see circumcision as cosmetic or as if it does not really matter, things that I thought were normal I only realized were problems after I restored and no longer had them, sexual enjoyment is way up. I can't imagine how much better the real thing is.

people have said in relation to sexual pleasure

intact=10

cut=3

restored=7

and from my experience I agree with the cut/restored numbers

let your son have an entire p***s, he only has one life to live, only one chance to feel the full sexual pleasure, if you circumcise him he will never be able to experience it

http://knol.google.com/k/george-hill/cir...

www.nocirc.org

Answer 8

I was asked about this but it didn't bother me. After all it was no skin of my nose

Answer 9

Please make sure that the doctor has it all written down correctly on the operation schedule.

It is going to be a circumcision, not a casteration.....

Answer 10

Congratulations for taking the big step.  I am sure you will not regret it at all.  I was cut at age 22 and it was the best thing I ever did.  Just take it easy for a few days after the surgery and try to put your feet up for awhile each day.  The head of your circumcised p***s will be very sensitive.  There are desensitizers that you can buy to reduce that feeling.  You are making the correct decsion and your life will turn considerably better.

Answer 11

Do not get a circumcision at all. I had it done when I was ten for the same reasons and recently found out that a few stretches a day would let me keep my f******n and have it like any others'. I say once again, please, please, do not get circumcised. It isn't any cleaner that being uncut, that was just something age-old doctors used to say. While it may seem a good idea to you right now, in a few weeks time, I am quite sure you will regret it. It causes reduced sensitivity in the glans (head) of the p***s over time, and cuts many of the nerve ending from the f******n (which is actually the most sensitive part of the p***s, next to the frenulum, which is also cut off anyway.) I one again advise you, please do not have it done. I am sure you will regret it. At least, however, you get a choice, whereas I didn't even know what was going on until I woke up from the anaesthetic. I hope you take my advice well, not just as fact, but as a matter of feeling and personal knowledge. Thankyou,

Tom, 14.

Answer 12

u will be very sore as the head of it will be raw when it touches of anything it will hurt u should ask to try and losten the f******n as there is a way of doing this   some women dont like men who have no f******n they have nothing to roll back if they catch your p***s as some women do on a first date to make u come  think about it

Answer 13

UH, SECOND OPINION!!! YOu don't have to there are other ways.

Answer 14

Get a second opinion from a male doctor. It is my firm belief that no woman can understand having a p***s no matter how much training she has.

If you still do need to go through with it, then go with loose pants, don't do anything too physical for a while, avoid p**n (or anything else likely to get you too excited) and try to be as drunk or hopped up on painkillers as you can for the entire duration.

Answer 15

I was circumcised as an adult. From the moment my f******n was off, I was happy. The pain is not as bad as the critics make it out to be.  As far as infection is concerned, your doctor will explain what to do and not do.

As far as pain is concerned, your p***s should be wrapped in a bandage for a few days. This stops it from rubbing and causing pain. Within 5 days you should be able to wear normal clothing without a dressing on the wound.

You need to avoid s*x or masturbation for a minimum of 3 to 4 weeks. It would not be good if the stitches came out or ripped. A few more days is worth the wait.

It is the best thing I could have done for my p***s. At least I have no more f******n related problems. I'm quite sure that you will be very happy and won't regret it.

Answer 16

try anything not to have it done why put yourself through the pain and suffering

Answer 17

okay...my fiance got circumsized in november. here are the very valuable things we learned.

-you will definetly need someone with you for about 24hours after the surgery. you will be very doped up still and in lots of pain.

-frozen peas are lovely.

-when you change the dressing, make sure you use the strips with the medicine on them that they will give you under the gauze- or it will stick.

-try to not get a hard-on. it hurts. badly. think about ugly ugly women and change the channel if a pretty girl is on tv. i wasn't allowed to be naked outside of the bathroom for a month. lol.

-most importantly- LISTEN TO YOUR DOCTOR. when they tell you to not have s*x for a month....they mean it. we tried to wait...but it was our anniversary and he wanted to try...and then the condom filled with blood and we spent the next thirtysix hours in the hospital. he ripped all the stitches out. which meant ANOTHER month without s*x...so instead of just not being about to have s*x on our anniversary...we couldnt have s*x on his birthday either. AND he got to see the inside of his p***s. not pretty.

good luck. and listen to your doctor.

Answer 18

Don't do it. Circumcision should only be used as a last resort. Try stretching and if you can get a prescription, Betamethasone cream first. Here's what to do

Get a second opinion from a f******n-friendly doctor. NOCIRC can refer you. http://www.nocirc.org/centers/centers.ph...

Adult males lose 15 square inches (40 square centimetres) of skin in circumcision, over half the skin of your p***s. You lose the gliding action as it slides on itself during masturbation and s*x. You will suffer bruising, perhaps some bleeding, and the swelling from the disruption to the lymph system goes on for up to six months. Removing the f******n turns the surface of the glans from an inner mucosal membrane to outside skin. Newly circumcised adults usually go through some weeks of intense discomfort as the glans is constantly exposed to rubbing on clothing, until it develops a thicker keratin layer and becomes less sensitive. You must abstain from ALL sexual activity for an average of six weeks. Some men like the final result but others complain of loss of sensation and miss being able to slide their f******n over the glans. Circumcised guys often have little or no movable skin left and are forced to m********e using lube or rubbing dry, without the loose skin. There is no going back if you don’t like the result.

A recent study has shown real differences in fine touch sensitivity between circumcised and intact penises and that the most sensitive parts of the intact p***s are those that would be removed by circumcision.

Answer 19

The only advice I can give you is make sure this is the absolute last thing you try! For a tight f******n there are stretching exercises, a steroidal cream in conjunction with the stretching exercises, and a dorsal slit as options. Have you tried any of these? If not I suggest you speak to your doctor about them before going ahead. Good luck!

Harriet

Answer 20

Betadine first to prevent any risk of infection, then a salve like hirudoid to prevent the formation of a scar.