Im getting bullied and its just started how can i stop it?

Question

shud i hit him i dont want to tell a teacher cos i wil get bullied more and how do you get ready b4 a fight and how to you not get scared and have the fighting instint in you b4 a fight

Answer 1

you should try to deal with it the best you can by telling some one i cant guaranty he/she will leave you alone  and don't try to get him/her mad.

Answer 2

GIVE HIM MONEY NOOB.

Answer 3

knock him out give him a couple of low blows and then hit some combinations on the side of his head its a weak spot as well as the back of the ears. Man up kid

Answer 4

you need a body guard friend that takes on s h i t  from no one! Like a bigger brother. the right thing to do is to report it to more than one person and each time it happens, don't do anything to instigate or aggravate the jerk. Avoid this person as much as possible learn self-defence moves to protect yourself. if this person is bigger or older than you then they should know not to bother anyone.

  Ive noticed that the big people have to pick the little or weaker ones to prove how brave they are, or they have to have more than themselves so they can hide behind their friends if things go wrong, it takes 5 or 6 bullies to equal one real man, a real ¨winner¨ mentality. When sick minded individuals spread their disease, it is to temporally relieve themselves of their suffering brought upon from their inferiority complex. Insecurity and inadequacy derived feelings will make one struggle to dominate their surrounding to enforce their strength and oppose anything that stands in their way and it just so happens to be you. I'm sure that others has had their turn as well, so don't take it personally if it isn't you, it'll be someone else. Many times i hear that a bunch of goofs pick on a 12 yr old, how brave, I wish sometimes to witness these happenings and intervene at the right time, involve myself to show them the rath of justice for ganging up on children. Not the p u s s y Canadian justice, real man to man justice just like the ole west.

Answer 5

just ignore him..if he keeps bullying you..if hes not much stronger or is weaker or about the same..beat his a$$..or just tell him to stfu

Answer 6

I was lucky I NEVER had this problem,

I was always the big kid..

But listen man real talk if you want this guy

to respect you and leave you alone you have to

show him your not messin around

Knock him out

Answer 7

dont hit him tht will just make it worse. wat u have to do is turn around and go the other way. dont let him stop u. and if is tht bad then u rlly should tell an adult.

Answer 8

Make sure lots of other kids are around you and then walk up to him and t**t him one right in the eye as hard as you can. if he isn't knocked down. Clinch on to him, like Ricky Hatton, and wait for someone to stop the fight.

Remember always get the first punch in.

Answer 9

Talk this over with your parents, guardians or grandparents.

Now this is important, and they need to talk to those in authoritie.  It needs to go on record.

Answer 10

o.k getting bullied is a nasty situation to be in (iv been there) there is no way to prepare for a fight and thats the last thing you want to be doing. you need to let this lad your not intimidated by him. when you have to walk past him (better to avoid him) walk confidently and if he yells insults just keep walking and smile (thats as good as giving him the finger) if he thinks you dont care anymore he has failed. if as you have stated this is physical abuse then the problem is much more serious YES you need to stand up 4 yourself and fight back even if you lose the fight you have fought and the bully will at the very least be wary of you in the future and maby move on to someone (in his eyes weaker) ill tell you something my dad told me...if your gonna get a kickin your gonna get a kickin but if you stand up for yourself then you can do it again. and what that means is when you stand up for yourself your showing that you will not be pushed around and people are going to know that.

Answer 11

I wouldn't physically fight.  Hurt that personal emotionally.  That will sting most of all.  Find out a secret about them (or make one up).  Show them you're not afraid of them.

Answer 12

Learn boxing or martial arts in order to defend yourself. Also, don't act like victim, bullies are cowards they prey on people who fear them. Tell him next time to his face, that you are not scared of him, and that if he continues to try to intimidate you and him will discuss  this in front of the Principal. Also tell him that you are prepared to do what is required to stop his cowardly behaviors. If he tries again just call the principal, request a meeting between yourself and the coward. Tell your parents. Remember "A brave Person dies once, a coward dies many deaths" you are a hero he is a coward.

Answer 13

Dont act scared, act confident. The only way to scare the bully away is to fight him/her.

Answer 14

I told my father and cried that I didn't want to go to school.

He took me out of that school and they filed a order with the principals office.  He said, "if there is several filed then we remove the bully.  It cannot be just a personality clash."

I did home schooling with this teacher and 6 other students having problems in regular school.  When we went into that class we were below average students.  She brought our grades not only up but better than the ones in the class we came out of.  I really started to learn.  

There was more problems and the boys parents said they were the ones picked on.  So little was done to correct the problem.  They kept filing orders from other students and others either transfered or quit.  One day they were caught on camera throwing down this boy and all four of them were kicking him.  He was younger and smaller.  They were forced to do something and those boys were expelled.

The students who left were now able to return and this year are doing real well in school.

Your best defense against a bully is for a parent to actually see them doing it.  Some do have hidden cameras that students can bring to school and film what is going on.

Because that is the only way these parents will believe their kid is a bully.

Answer 15

It depends what they're doing? if they're callin u names just ignore it or think of some  sarcastic comment for the next time they say it.

I agree that you should say somthing to hurt them emotionaly.

& i dnt think u should fight with them chances are they got loads of friends who will get invoved and you'll just make it worse.

Answer 16

I'm 16 right now and I'm not bullied now, but when I was younger I was messed with all the time. I didn't understand it at all because when I was home, I was treated like a prince or somethin..haha

But back to the point. Don't take no **** from them, they will keep going on and on. If they say somethin disrespectful, say something back to them, dont stand there like a moron and take it.  If they're putting there hands on you, mop the floor with them. :)

I hope this helped.