I`m giving up child...what do you think of it?

Question

She is 17 years old, we adopted her when she was 8 and all her teen years she has giving me nothing but problems, even in my marriage, she has an older married sister in another state, I think it`s best for her to be with her sister, I did try for years to make it work. God knows I did.

Answer 1

Sweety this is the way wrong place to ask what people think of that....I did what you are doing, but with my own daughter, much longer story. I had her at 15 gave her up. when she was 10 got her back because her parents abused her and we hired a lawyer and all, any way, it was horrible, she hated me so on, she had to go back to foster care. she was hurting me and her 2 sisters.....she is now 31 and still hates me....did I do the right thing? Yes for me it was the right thing. I know the guilt and the termoil and unless someone has lived this they are just going to trash you on here. If you want to talk to someone you can email me. I except messages. Be Strong>>>Peace

Answer 2

Are you asking for permission to be a flake?

I think she has probably been let down by many people in her life and you are just another one.

No wonder she has problems.

Answer 3

YES SEND HER AWAY

SHE TECTNATlY GROWN NOW