Im going into the 10th grade but...

Question

I never had a boyfriend. There are a lot of cute guys in my school. Everybody always tells me im pretty. My eyes, teeth, the way I do my hair, and dress. When my godsister visits me she always laugh when I tell her that. I am shy and quiet and I do worry about what people think about me. And people do tell me that I shouldn't care. So can you guys give me some help?

Answer 1

I used to be just like you but in the eighth grade I started talking to a guy and eventually started going out and now we have been together for 3 years. But my advice is to enjoy the rest of high school and don't worry about it just have fun and wait for the day that you start talking to that special someone.Just don't put yourself out there because then it's going to send the wrong message to people.Just don't rush anything.

Answer 2

FLIRT!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

try to be more outgoing and flirt more. it sounds wierd, but when you see someone you think is cute and your afraid to talk to them, pretend your someone else who is outgoing and loud and experienced.

dont show anyone that your shy or afraid. BE BOLD HONEY! (:

Answer 4

whats the problem? so what if you havnt had a boyfriend. i was always a tomboy and just one of the guys and i didnt get a boyfirnd until the end of my snior year. as long as you have fun and like school and there are no problems then you shouldnt worry about boys, they only just complicate stuff sometimes

Answer 5

I dont get it. Why do you so badly NEED  boyfriend.. who cares

some people are just naturally shy

so what

it makes you you

Answer 6

Yeah, im a Junior in high school.. have had only 3 girlfriends.

not to sound too aragont, but plenty of really nice looking girls have asked me out.

Thing is, is that i have my priorities straight..

This is a quote that I made up that I usually think of when it comes to dating at a young age:

“A relationship is like a rainstorm, it starts and continues for a random moment of time, never knowing how long it will last, but soon it will stop at any given moment.”

note that im not g*y, nor do i not like girls.. because i will surely admit i have kissed girls during my high school years lol

but if you havent had a boyfriend, dont worry too much about it.

Enjoy being a youth and not having to take on as much responsibilites as you will when you are an adult!

Answer 7

dont worry your only in year 10, your still very young and a lot of girls havent had boyfriends. one will come along when you least expect it so just let your life pan out the way it should. but perhaps try to become a bitmore confident and talk to more people and you never know!

Answer 8

so whats the question?

Answer 9

Try being more outgoing.

Shy and Quiet isn't always something guys look for.

I wouldn't worry about not having a boyfriend yet.

Nothing is wrong.

Worrying what people think about you is normal!

But don't keep that from doing things you want.

Hope I helped!

Answer 10

Listen dear, you don't need a guy to make you happy, I'm going to be a senior and sure, I've fallen for guys, but I've never dated and I'm okay with that. You might actually find, when you get the chance that you might be, slightly uncomfortable with it. I had a chance...sorta but like it felt, almost to...weird for me, although I even liked him. I'm not talking nerves here I was actually uncomfortable.

So you might actually find out you might like being single...I wouldn't be in such a rush.

Though I have to say, it's weird though, at the same time you might like being single, you'll also want a relationship...and it's very strange.

If you don't want to listen to what I just told you I'll tell you this. You shouldn't care what people think, and if your going to care anyways, then fake that you don't because confidence is a huge thing, or so I've heard, but it would make sense if you really think about it. I think that's probably your problem right there, confidence...that's all you need to work on.

Edit: I saw someone say try to flirt, actually don't try, because when you try to flirt, you might to hard and it could be like uberly obvious. If you have enough confidence (not too much though!) I think the flirting will come naturally.

Answer 11

Don't worry about it. I never had a boyfriend until the end of 11th grade. You just haven't found the right guy yet. It isn't about finding someone in highschool because everyone else is doing it, it's about finding the guy that makes you happy. If you haven't found him yet, don't just get a boyfriend to have one, just wait until you find them. Some people don't get boyfriends until they're out of college, although if you're everything you say you are you'll find one earlier, don't worry about it and go about your life normally.

Answer 12

well im kinda goin through the same thing im goin to 11th grade

only had 1 boyfriend but it didnt last

im shy around the opposite s*x thats probably ur problem too

boys dont go for shy girls they want a girl with confident

even if u arent jus pretend around them and u eventually will

be happy smile laugh and dont have ur head down while talking to them

email me and we can talk

and tell me how ur 1st day

of 10th grade is

oh dont rush into having a boyfriend its not worth it

just wait 4 that right person to come along

even if it seems like it takes forever and everyone around

you have somebody but if u notice they never work out

so just wait

Answer 13

stop waiting and ask someone out.

Answer 14

YOUR UGLY THATS WHY!

Answer 15

I think your godsister is just laughing at your immodesty. Asserting that you are pretty is immodest and not really that shy.  

Answer 16

well you need to try to flirt.

and if people tell you your pretty you'll have a boyfrined

in no time.

good luck and always be yourself.

Answer 17

don't be pressured to get a "L-O-S-E-R" boyfriend.  Take your time to worry about getting your education first.  

Answer 18

its easy to say not to worry what other people think of you :P those people who said that in some other ways do care everyone does to some extent... if everyone tells you you are pretty then you should have no trouble finding a guy. I'm a 16 year old guy myself sadly there are no hot or even decent looking girls where I live :( Maine sucks!