Im going to feel really left out!!?

Question

for my friends 18 th birthday in november, there is lots of us going out for a meal then going out clubbing, but im still 17 and my bday is in july so i wont be able to go, but she said that she knows someone who is friends with a bouncer and can try and get me in, but i cant see it happening really and im going to feel so left out!

how can i feel better about this cause im gutted?!

thanks xxxxxx

Answer 1

go, if u look old enough you'll get in, i was going clubbing at 14 regularly, just try not to drink too much.

if you feel that this is really not going to happen, then maybe suggest to your friend that you could put some cash together and hire a room somewhere that'll allow under 18s as well (back room of a pub), hire a good dj and have a party,....if there is a bunch of you and you all chip in 30 quid or so you'll definitely get a room and a dj, poss some food and a bit left over to put behind the bar.

just a thought

Answer 2

Work on a fake id to make you 18?  Talk with your parents about this decision so if you get caught, you won't be in as much trouble at home.

Maybe the bouncer friend will overlook your age.  Show a little cleavage and wear a short skirt.  This always worked for me and I have almost no cleavage.  Never underestimate your flirting abilities.

Answer 3

What have you really got to loose....go out after the dinner with your mates, if they let you in..amazing...if they don't then at least you tried!! Otherwise you'll just be sat at home wondering what if...etc! But make sure that if the turn you away, you can get home safely..discuss this with your mates beforehand, so you aren't just left stranded by yourself! Also less is more as in don't bother trying too much and overdo the hair, make-up, clothes, etc cause that makes you look as if you're trying to hard to be something you aren't.... but yes get your mate to let the bouncer know, so there isn't any embarssing mishapps at the door :S !!

Fingers crosses and good Luck!