Im gonna ask my best friend out?

Question

okay so if youve seen my previous question

youd know that i was thinking of askin my

best friend out or another girl

well from all of the answers i got

it convinced me to ask my best friend out

so im gonna ask her out

but i need some ideas

i know this may sound stupid or retarded or w.e

but

i just dont wanna say"will you go out with me"

and thats it.

cuz like i wanna take her out somewhere then ask

but idk where and like how to ask her out

i dont wanna just say "will you go out with me" its dull and overused...

this is probably the first girl that ive ACTUALLY fallen for alot

so i wanna kinda ask her out but in a special way

and please dont post answers sayin "this is a stupid question" etc.

i realllllyyyy like her so i wanna ask her out in a special way

any ideas?

Answer 1

Go to the fair at night

Go on the ferris wheel and look into her eyes and say something I love you as a friend, Will you love me as a boyfriend?

or something along those lines. :P

good luckk.

Answer 2

I'm in the same boat...I just have more a fear of rejection and messing up our bond then anything.  The way I was going to ask her would be something like, "Hey, I was thinking and I don't know, I kind of want to take our relationship to the next level..."   She'll either answer right away which would be good or she'll think a moment.  If she thinks, say something like, "I just feel like this might be it, this might be what I'm looking for. (explain why you like here here...something like) It's just amazing how I can hang out with you and feel some comfortable, I love the times when were together even though were just friends, and I've thought I would be good just to give it a try, otherwise neither of us will never know."

Just some advise, rejection can be hard with a thing like this, and remember the risk of asking, you could:

a) Make things totally awkward.

b) Get rejected and plummet into a deep depression.

c) Have her say yes and lose her later, losing a great friend.

d) Find the love of your life.

Good luck!

Answer 3

"you know, you the best friend in the world, but you could be the best girlfriend in the universe."

Answer 4

i had a guy ask me out he wrote me a love song at first i thought it was kinda creepy because i didnt really know him liek the most he would say to me was hi in the morning and then ppl started to tell me that he was staring at me in class but just tell her how u feel about her from ur heart and see what she says. You could say your name______ i really liek you your my best friend and i really like you and wanna know if you would be my gf...etc

Answer 5

Step1There is a girl you want to ask out? First prepare yourself by assesing your skills. How do you stack up when it comes to your dating abilities? [you can take the quiz referenced in the resources at the bottom of this page].

Just be honest with yourself, and ask yourself how do you stack up.

Step2Then get prepared mentally by understanding that your chances of getting a no when you do ask out this girl, are much higher than getting a yes (the best of the best of the best in the world only get a yes 20% of the time from strangers, and about 60% from women in social circles), and there is nothing you can learn on eHow or anywhere else that is going to change this. Go in expecting the best when you ask out a girl, but prepared for the worst (this is what we call acceptance confidence, being fine with "luck" and going after it anyway).

Step3Once you are mentally prepared, and determined to have fun no matter what happens... Realize that you need to detach from "wanting" something out of this girl when you do ask her out. Have the attitude that if she says yes, that's cool, if she says no, that's cool too. (This will increase the odds of a yes tremendously as well). Your only goal is to have a fun, interesting conversation, not to ask out a girl.

Step4Talk to the girl, laugh, have fun, and tease and joke around (if you can't do this, than look at the resources at the very bottom of the page). There's two ways to take it from here:

1) When you're both in a great mood, at the peak of laughing and joking around, just go "hey let's go here", and take her to the cafe nearby, a park bench, a stroll on a path... Guess what, you've just *asked her out*! This is called an "instant date". It's much more romantic, spontaneous and preferable to a formal "date request" where you verbally ask a girl out.

Sometimes a formal request is needed though, if you happen to always be in a situation that doesn't allow an instant-date. In that case...

2) When you are both at the peak of a fun, enthralling conversation, just say "hey, i got to go do (whatever it is you need to do), let's continue this conversation over a cafe at so and so this Friday". At this point she will either:

a) Say something like "sure, i can make it there by this time", or "sure, i can do that", "yeah, let's do that"... this is a yes.

or

b) "oh, there's plenty of time friend", or "maybe some other time" (without offering that "other time"), or "oh wow, my cat died, i am burying it exactly on Friday at that time"... answers like these are no. Basically any "excuse" where she doesn't offer an alternative is a no to you asking her out.

Now you know how to never get stuck with one of those... how to ask out a girl questions, which might make you raise new questions such as "how do I overcome my fear from doing it or the fear of rejection. Look into the the different resources at the bottom of the page for those specific questions.

Or even take her to the state fair and if you look her in the eyes you may kiss!!♥

Answer 6

Don't ask her out.

Just take her to the fair as friends, and smile and be flirty, and she'll realize that you like her, and she may like you back and then she might say something about it. But if she doesn't like you back, you'll keep being friends because she doesn't have anything to call you on.

Good luck!!

Answer 7

ask her how much she likes you

when she answers, tell her "i like you, and i'd be happy to tell you, i don't want to be your friend, so could i be your boyfriend?"

Answer 8

Ask her to hang out with you at the fair and then when the moment is right say what the first answer suggested ^^.

Good luck!

~Julie

Answer 9

do say wanna go out

say so do u wana get together

or somethin

or say i like you as a friend but i  would rather have u as a gf

Answer 10

the fair sounds like a good idea io would ask her on the ferris wheel at the top if you go to the fair

Answer 11

fair sounds like a good idea :D

Answer 12

Write her a song or poem. She'll fall in love with you in minutes. or make a mix cd with love songs on it.

Answer 13

"You're an amazing friend to me, but will you be an amazing girlfriend to me instead?"

Answer 14

Ask her how she is liking the fair and if she says yes ask her would you like it better if you were my girlfriend"  

Answer 15

taking her to the fair is awesome

maybe you could write her a poem or something

good luck with that xD